calliecritturs
Posted : 3/23/2011 11:06:24 PM
There comes a very real time here when you have to make some sacrifices to **absolutely** prevent the bullying. Yes, there's a point to letting them sort things out BUT, just plain *don't* leave the room when they have treats (frankly, that's a recipe for a fight most anywhere).
If they aren't crate trained, man that would be MY first step -- because Daisy NEEDS a safe place where she knows she won't get bullied.
Don't say Daisy won't stick up for herself -- that's her personality and it's not a negative that she's submissive.
Also -- make SURE you aren't setting things up for Pepper TO be a bully.
Don't provide a treat, dinner, etc. and then ALLOW Pepper *to* steal. She takes her nose out of her bowl you say "Nuh uh!! Leave Daisy alone!"
Put Daisy's bowl on one side of the room, and Peppers in another corner -- Pepper shouldn't be able to just stick her nose in the other bowl. OR feed them in crates so they can only get to their own food.
Don't allow Pepper on the furniture if she's being territorial. That should be human controlled. But it would probably be better for you to sit on the floor with the dog and have zero furniture privileges for anyone. Because if Pepper is jealous, then when the other dog gets down Pepper may attack. I would say everyone needs to be on the floor ALL the time.
It may also help to have a particular blanket or towel for each of them (separate -- NEVER give Peppers to Daisy or vice versa). But anywhere they DO lay, they need to be **invited** to lay on their blanket. It's YOUR spot. So then it's easier to keep Pepper out of Daisy's face.
Two females will often have more of a problem if no male is around to moderate.