Hi all--
Hoping someone can offer a solution to a dog aggression/dominance issue my dog is having.
Her
name is Maggie. She's about 16 months old, so decidedly in her
adolescent phase. She's a cross breed of a German
Shepherd and a Jack Russell Terrier, and in terms of size she's about
half way between the size of a GSD and JRT (55 lbs). She LOVES people
and is getting much better with greeting people politely. She's never had
any dominance/aggression issues towards people and for that I'm
thankful.
Unfortunately she is bad with smaller dogs. I can see several factors here so I'll try to explain all of them briefly.
We
adopted her from a bad situation at 10 weeks -- flea infested, covered
in dirt, possibly abused by her owners, definitely abused by the other
dog she lived with (she had at least two cuts, including a nasty one on
her chest below her neck that took several weeks to heal). I suspect
that having been abused by the other dog plays a big role in her
behavior now.
I've tried to socialize her as much as possible but
because of life, where we lived, limited budget (we're young), etc. she gets limited interaction with
other dogs. We have on occasion taken her to play with my partner's
work friends, who have two dogs -- a rottie and great dane/gsd mix, both
of whom are larger and older than Maggie. Maggie loves playing with
them and they all get on well so long as no toys or food are involved
(unsurprising). The one bad thing is we recently moved and we no longer
see the work friends very often. Instead we often see my partner's extended family, most of whom have small dogs, and therein lies the problem.
With smaller dogs, Maggie is totally different. She's an
incessant sniffer (I say she "noses" the other dog aggressively). She
attempts to stand over top of the other dog, which is ALWAYS a direct
challenge and clear attempt to exert authority. If the dog tries to
move while Maggie is standing over it, Maggie snarls. Sometimes the
other dog just seems to annoy Maggie or, you know, gets a little too
overeager to sniff butts. Even if the smaller/younger dog is licking
Maggie's mouth or presenting her belly, Maggie still reacts poorly...
alternates between aggressive "nosing," as I say, and growling. When
someone is holding the smaller dog, Maggie's ears are back, tail
wagging, hackles down... Maggie still sniffs and noses a lot, but no
aggressive behavior. When the smaller dog is put on the ground,
Maggie's ears go up, tail still wags but also goes up, and hackles tend
to come up as well, and she instantly tries to position herself over top
of the smaller dog, growls, snaps occasionally, etc.
We have
tried easing Maggie into being friendly with these smaller dogs and she's had exposure to them on several occasions since we moved two months ago. We have
tried "guilting" and negative reinforcement (ie, timeouts and "bad
dogs";). We have also tried calming, positive reinforcement (petting,
"be nice... good girl!", even excessive treats) for good behavior.
Nothing seems to make any difference for more than a few seconds. I want to allow the dogs to just
be and see what happens, but with Maggie attempting to show such clear
dominance and regular growling/snapping, I fear she might seriously hurt
the smaller/younger dog if I tried to just let them establish their
order. Not a good way to ensure acceptance with the in laws...
I'm
very frustrated. I want to be able to allow my dog to socialize with
other dogs and I hate having to worry about it every time I visit my
girlfriend's family. But Maggie makes it a poor experience and instead
of enjoying their company we end up just babysitting the dogs to make
sure they're kept in separate rooms to avoid ugly scenes, etc.
Anyone have any ideas for what I might be able to do?
If so, many many thanks in advance...