glenmar
Posted : 10/19/2010 9:13:40 AM
Probably the best thing you can do for both of you is to get her into a professional, positive reinforcement trainer. Understand that the trainer isn't going to train your pup, s/he's going to train YOU how to train your pup. This is a pretty critical time in her training....the longer she is allowed to pull and to nip, the more those behaviors are reinforced. If something works, dogs are going to continue to do it.
One suggestion that may help is to turn into a tree when she pulls. Do not budge. Or, turn around and go the other direction. YOU need to be in charge of the walks until she understands that all good things, including romps, come from you. Once she reaches that point, you'll find that she doesn't need such strict structure because she's LEARNED to do what you ask for.
I've had a number of surgeries on my upper body...shoulders and neck....and simply don't have the upper body strength that I once had. One of the things that worked for me in the early days of working with my shepherds, before I learned what I've learned, is to use a longer lead and loop it around my waist, run the clip through the "handle" so it isn't going anyplace, and use my body weight to my advantage. Saves the shoulders at least, and gives you a bit more control. When I've had litters in the house, I never was without a fanny pack and pockets full of toys. And I worked with pups from a very young age so they would understand that while it might be ok to chew on your littermate, its NOT ok to chew on humans. A sharp "eh! no bite" followed by the immediate shoving a toy in the offending mouth with "THIS is what you can bite" and then praise for biting on it instead of me, seemed to have done the trick for us.
Every day that passes, your pup is going to get bigger and stronger and more headstrong, so you really need to get the walking thing under control now, while you still can without a lot of tools or physical damage to you. My attitude towards walks for my dogs is that the walks are for them. I'm not particular about who is in front, who decides which way to go, etc. When we are walking in town, or amongst people, when I ask for a heel, I get it, but typically, it doesn't really matter to me. BUT, my dogs are at the point where they do exactly what I ask, when I ask whether on or off lead. Sunday when we had two of them out in the field we had gotten close to the woods, and suddenly three deer broke for the woods.....my kids wanted to give chase, but I called them off and they immediately froze. Knowing that I have that kind of control allows me to be a bit more lax about who goes where and who decides the direction of the walk.
One of the biggest reasons that people surrender large breeds is a lack of training. What's cute when they are little, isn't so cute when they grow up. And, as you are learning, if it isn't fun to have a dog, a lot of people just "get rid of" them. Training is absolutely critical when they are young, and it's a lot of work to get an adult dog who is obedient and well mannered, especially in a herding breed.
Shepherds are absolutely wonderful dogs, but getting htem to nice adults takes a lot of work. Please find yourself a trainer.