Chihuahua Yorky Mix

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    Chihuahua Yorky Mix

    Hello All:

    I have a Chi/Yorky mix.  Her name is Ginger.  I've had her for about 5 months.  She was given to me by my bosses boss.  He knew that I was looking for a dog and came over to my desk and offered to let me "trial her for the weekend."  He found her in abandoned in a dog park.  I didn't really want to (I'm not that into small dogs), but caved into the peer pressure of my peers.  Long story short, it isn't working out.

    She bites and is not house trained still, but the worst part is, we have no connection.  I am familair and experienced with all sorts of training methods and have tried everything from NILIF, which I started from the git go, to pretending like she doesn't exist when she is bad, treating her when she goes potty outside, and have even resorted to rubbing her nose in it.  Yes, I do crate her when I am gone.  Maybe I am just not familar enough with small breeds to train her and that is why I am posting.  Does anyone have some ideas on how to stop this behavior?

     It suddenly dawned on me, after spending $1,000 on a tooth extraction and dental cleaning for my terrier mix, Joey, that I would never do the same for Ginger and that is horrible.  The difference is, is that Joey would jump out a window for me, but Ginger, if she could, would push me out.  I would be devastated if I had to give Joey up. I would be relieved if I could find a good home for Ginger. 

    Concerning the biting, it is when she has a treat and you get too close, or have to take it away from her that she will bite.  Not hard, but I have always said that there are too many great dogs in the shelters to waste my time on one that will bite.   She also adores my boyfriend and will snap at me for getting to close to him.  She is very convincing w/ her growling and snarling, but I have recently learned that if you actually just take the treat or push her away from my boyfriend, she won't really hurt you.  She actually threw an all out temper tantrum when I took a sock she wasn't supposed to have away from her.  She realized that I am on to her and don't take her seriously anymore, but that was months ago and she still pulls the same ***.

    She doesn't know how to tell you she has to go out.  I have tried to take her out on a regular schedule, but she still pees or poos in the  house almost every day.  She has ruined the mattress in my guest bedroom.  Here I thought she was being so good for weeks on end and we were finally getting through to her and then I lifted up the blanket on the guest bed and, "oh my."  Since then, I have kept her gated in the room I am in, which is a pain in the ass and I was really hoping was just going to be a temporary thing, but no, I turn around and sure enough there is a puddle or poo on the floor.  I've had her checked for UTI's - she's fine.  Oh, she recently peed on my cell phone. Good thing I have phone insurance or that would have cost me a good $300.

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    I would rehome the dog.  If there's no connection, why waste the time and effort training the dog?  It sounds like someone else's problem was dumped on you.  You tried to help out but.....there's probably someone out there that would love a little monster like this, lol.  All these problems are super common with small breeds that have been poorly bred.

    If you do decide to work at it, in general it sounds like this dog has waaaaaay too much freedom.  She should not even be in a position where she can pee on your bed, take your socks, or get between you and your boyfriend.  I'd start with her like she was an 8 week old puppy, and luckily a dog of this breed is about that size, lol.  Setup a pen for her.  She gets to come out for 15 minutes every hour or so (or something like that) and if she does good, she earns more time and/or more access to other places in the house.

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    That's a great idea.  I will give that a shot.  Yah, I realized she was getting too much freedom when I found yellow spots all over the mattress in my guest bedroom.  I never thought of using freedom as a reward though. Thank you.

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    Yeah I'd basically treat the dog like you are house training a very young puppy.  Keep things consistent too, like on a schedule.  With the puppies I do something like 10-15 minutes free time (in the den and kitchen - not the entire house - with me and the other dogs) for every hour in the pen.  Outside time I don't regulate, that's like my dogs' sacred place since they can pee or poo anywhere, run around and make all the noise they want as long as it's OUTside.  Inside there are definite rules and the dogs do not get access to furniture, certain areas of the house, even ME, until they've shown they are under control.

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    I agree with all of the above.  Perhaps have your partner work with her more since she is so fond of him?

    Do place her carefully tho to insure that she doesn't continue to just get dumped from one place to another.

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    glenmar
    Do place her carefully tho to insure that she doesn't continue to just get dumped from one place to another.

     

    Do be honest with whoever you place her with or they will end up feeling like you do.  I feel very sorry for this dog but it's obvious you aren't the right home for her.

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    jojo the pogo
    but Ginger, if she could, would push me out.

    jojo the pogo
    I would be relieved if I could find a good home for Ginger.

    See the connection? You didnt want her from the beginning and she knew it all along. There is no amount of training that can help if you are always giving her the "cold shoulder". She simply does not trust you, she knows your feelings towards her.

    Yes, there is no connection and I'm sure the dog does not want one if a human is that "rude" to her

    I am not saying you are a bad person whatsoever, i'm only showing you the dog's point of view. The "vibe" you are sending her is making her react this way.

    I would say that if you are whilling just forget about the past and treat her like a new dog, it will take a few weeks but she will start to put her guard down if you really show her that you really want to be friend with her

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    Espenser, I have tried, like for example last night, to try again with her, to look at her and enjoy her adorableness - which she is.  I made a list last night of all the things I love about Ginger.  She loves to cuddle, she is hysterical when she plays, she likes to travel around in your hoody pocket, she's gotten better about biting.  Please don't think that I haven't tried over and over again with her.  And maybe you are right, maybe I am sending her a vibe that she is not wanted, but then wouldn't the right thing be to find her a new home with someone who is willing to handle this.  We all know there are people out there that love that fiesty chihuahua behavior.  I don't.  I don't think biting and showing teeth it is even mildly cute. 

    What's sad, is she really does adore my boyfriend.  Infact, she prefers men.  I've kept her for as long as I have because he is her "light."  

    I have a friend who she really likes and she is aware of all of Ginger's problems - I was very frank.  She still hasn't gotten back to me.  I will keep Ginger if I cannot find her a home w/ someone I know.  Dont worry, I will not put her up on craigslist.  Until then, I need to figure out something.

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    jojo the pogo
    Please don't think that I haven't tried over and over again with her.  And maybe you are right, maybe I am sending her a vibe that she is not wanted, but then wouldn't the right thing be to find her a new home with someone who is willing to handle this.

    Trust does not happen in one or 2 months but hey, i know exactly where are you coming from and if you didnt really want her from the beginning I'm with the others regarding rehoming her with someone that is willing to work with her

    Yes some dogs show teeth and bite, i've been in front of dogs that weight more than 100 lb showing that behavior but the vibe i send in return is calm.

    It sounds like she is guarding your boyfriend as well and he actually does not do anything about it

    It seems that you crossed the bridge with her and burned it down. I hope your friend can take her