Kim_MacMillan
Posted : 2/15/2010 2:54:40 PM
When guests come to my house, they all have a cue to go into another room and they stay in there until the guests are settled and I decide if and when I wish to let them interact. They only bark a couple of times to alert me to somebody at the door, and then settle in for a nap in bed. In fact as I say this I have company over now that does not really like dogs that much, so they are staying in bed and they have been silent the whole time. It's quite possible, and easy to do, to teach them that they can relax in another room while company is over. They do not sit and bark mercilessly from another room, and I do this because I have a dog that does not like strangers, and I am not going to force her to make a decision about strangers entering the house. As her guardian it is my responsibility to keep her safe and stable, and this does that for her.
Once guests are settled, if I decide to let them out to interact (most times yes, but sometimes, like during a house party, they will stay in bed) I will let them out one at a time, so that the three are not competing with each other.
These dogs are not able to control themselves. They physically and emotionally cannot do it. For their own benefit they should be worked one on one, and kept out of the room whe you are not actively working with them. They should not be allowed to interact together in the beginning, that is later training and you are setting yourself up for stress and frustration, not to mention adding more stress to the dogs by forcing them to make decisions, and then punishing them for something they cannot control anyhow is downright unfair to the dogs. You are dealing with a long-established habit that will take one-on-one work to fix.