cc431
Posted : 10/11/2007 9:51:06 PM
jessies_mom
Did I respond in an angry manner to you when you made those comments to me? I'm honestly not angry with you but if you wanted to inspire thought with that post you should have worded it differently; it did seem very condescending whether or not that was your intention. ...
No you did not respond in anger, and I didn't think you would have. If I would have thought my words would have angered you I would have refrained. I've known you here for years now and know you are a big enough person, strong enough person, to handle what some might consider a paragraph intended to spark some good debate. I see it as more like engaging rather than oh that is mean talk. I apologize if I was mean....very sorry.
But, to expand on that very paragraph (not directed at you) there are people out there (again, maybe not you) who do indeed get caught up in what seems to be a big circle game, no end in sight, no answers, always back to square one. I hate to see that, people getting caught up in what some would call a 'run around'. Off to the vet having problems. They vet is aware the dogs is overall in good health yet there is a problem with allergy. Try this food...try that food, try a food w/out rice. Try a food without barley. Try a food without chicken. It is what I would call 'throwing darts'. Nothing seems to works, try these meds. Doc, the meds seem to work but I can't afford that stuff any longer. Isn't there any other way? Try the holistic approach, try grain-free, try my associates down at the acupuncture center. Try Doctor Doolittle. And when all is said and done many very sadly find themselves right back at the beginning again. It is disheartening and extremely frustrating. Some shed tears from constant frustration. Some will fight and argue with the loved ones caught up in the circle. Some may say enough is enough and have the dog put to sleep before they go broke or drop off at the shelter. Ad in the paper, free to good home. It happens friends, it is reality. It bothers me knowing that exists. Why, I don't know. Maybe I'm just a sensitive guy and hate to see people get jerked around, and it happens.
I recall a routine visit for a rabies shot and overheard some conservation. A urinalysis with crystals or something. Try this food, this is what we sell to help with that. I get interested and peek at the ingredients. I literally slap my hand over my mouth in awe looking at the ingredients in shock and disbelief. And the couple just standing there with a dazed and confused that they have to try something else and just mindlessly agreeing, looking at each with sad eyes like I don't believe we have to go through this again.
Somebody maybe reading this and find it relates. There are answers to problems. All dogs have the potential thrive and live trouble free lives and save a lot of heartache.
We all know people that have dogs feed bad diets of whatever is the cheapest and get along just fine, trouble free for many years. Many other dogs don't do well on bad diets and have constant trouble. It almost seems like the luck of the draw and it gets chalked up to something like genetics as the problem. I believe the answers are indeed found in diet and nutrition.
Sorry again about before if I sounded mean-spirited.
Charlie