mudpuppy
Posted : 10/3/2006 9:28:03 AM
can't address the petting issue, sounds like she's scared of you in some way? are you grabbing suddenly at her and scaring her?
But stay, that's easy. Keep your pockets full of treats all the time. So you have the treats, but if it's a behavior she knows really well, don't always give her one for compliance. Praise instead.
To start stay, ask for a sit. Rapid-fire feed her treats as she sits. Release before she thinks about getting up. Repeat. Start moving around in between coming back and giving her treats. Do not work on both "duration" and "distance from you" at the same time-- for example, you want her to eventually stay for three minutes with you out of sight, so first work on getting her to sit for five minutes with you standing next to her, then work on getting her to sit for five seconds with you out of sight. Only when she is perfect on both do you work on combining the two.
Once your dog has a reasonable grasp of "stay", start sometimes rewarding for the stay, and sometimes rewarding for the release. Most dogs actually have more problems with the release than with the stay- they never really are sure what their release is, and that causes problems with them breaking the stay. So ask for a short stay, then release. If she immediately pops up on being released, reward. Toys work excellently well for release rewards, tend to build an explosive release.