Poodle_luvr
Posted : 7/12/2008 1:08:38 AM
First of all - I agree with MA - everyone should be able to ask a question, no matter what it is, and be treated kindly and with respect.
You know, when I first found this site I was very excited and I have really enjoyed it. The information is wonderful and because all of us love our dogs and have had so many various experiences, breeds, etc, there is just a wealth of knowledge here. We all have a lot of passion about our dogs, whatever breed we own. What a wonderful resource!
But time and time again, this resource is wasted. If someone asks a question that someone else thinks is 'stupid' or 'uneducated' or whatever the word they want to use is, they jump down their throat. They give lectures and use scare tactics, they are snotty, and all in the name of 'caring for the welfare of dogs' and 'wanting to prevent overpopulation'. Both wonderful things, by the way.
BUT - if I were someone new to this site and had no real dog knowledge and wanted to breed my very cute dog (whatever breed, color, size, personality, faults), and I came on and asked a 'dumb' breeding question, I think that some of these answers would just make me never come back to this site again. I would not go away with anything positive and I would not have learned anything to make me rethink my breeding idea. And what a waste. Right there we did a disservice to our goal of preventing overpopulation, preserving breed standards, and promoting responsible breeding practices.
So this person didn't go to some internet sites, or the vet, or a reputable breeder and get some knowledge first - can't we be that first resource for that person? Can't we kindly and respectfully educate? And can't we share our opinions in a nice way without cutting on this person? I am just so sad to see such wasted opportunity, all in the name of our passion for our dogs. Let's get real here. The passion I see here is to push our personal ideas and ideals, not caring what we say or how we say it. To a new person, much of the responses to the original post are just nasty, pushy, arrogant responses. It's very sad. I don't think our dogs would appreciate the way we are representing their welfare.
One more thing I want to share is this. Years ago when my husband and I first married we had an Alaskan Malamute bitch that was awesome. We trained her and showed her and she was just a wonderful representation of the breed. So you know what we did? We bred her. Twice. We were your typical 'back yard breeders' who didn't have a clue, because even though she was really great, the sire we bought was not a proven dog in any way. He was AKC registered, big, and very pretty. That's about it. We sold our pups with a life-long return contract and we did actually get two dogs back - one within a year because of a move, one a couple years down the road because of a divorce. Should we have bred our dogs? By most standards, probably not. Would I do it again? I'm sorry to inflame things, but I have no regrets. It was an awesome experience. For those who say watching their bitch give birth was scary and awful, I'm sorry - I thought it was wonderful and totally incredible. We lost a pup or two and that was sad. Birth is a natural thing. Like all natural things, there are good and bad experiences. My point - if someone decides to breed their dog, let them enjoy the experience. Not all births are traumatic and awful.
Now I have Standard Poodles. These dogs were chosen very carefully, with possible showing and breeding in mind. This time I know to do genetic testing, etc. Will I breed them? I don't know. Depends on a lot of things. I will do appropriate testing and a lot of research. And I will decide, regardless of what anyone else thinks. I do feel bad that if I have any questions I probably wouldn't feel comfortable asking anyone on this site - again, what a waste of some wonderful knowledge and help. How sad is that?