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Maggie is as intensely obsessed with cleanliness as a cat.
No wonder my poor brain felt confused -- ok, now I get it ... she IS a dog. I mis-read "is as" as "is an" -- and ... *sigh*
The Shishandra should work for her -- at least to help. And if you can remember to put the bitches britches on her when she comes IN (this is crazy but it works) -- I discovered if you fold the top part of the pad down onto itself -- about an inch or so -- and THEN stick it onto the britches WAY UP so it almost obscures the tail hole. Then when you put them on her, seat that fold up where it needs to be flush under her tail and it will almost completely avoid most leaks.
Most of the time people either try to cut a hole for the tail (does NOT work *rolling eyes& lordy, I've spent hours doing that) or just put the pad in the britches -- but the way a dog is "built" they'd have to be STANDING for those britches to catch any significant wetness, particularly on a bigger dog.
folding down that top inch literally wickes it away from her tail and if the britches are pretty secure it holds it up onto her pretty well. I also cut out that plastic insert in the britches. In about 3 washings that gets brittle and sharp and OWIE it can rub them sore. All you really need them for is to hold her middle tight and give the pad something to rest on that will move with her.
I also found that if you buy the **extra long** human continence pads and then snip them in HALF. Buy nylon first aid tape (**not** the waterproof stuff -- don't make MY mistakes LOL) -- then you can tape that end shut (or all the stuff/gel will leak out). Regular tape is sharp and irritates, waterproof tape isn't flexible enough and the wet will just roll onto the denim.
I oughta market these, but the whole point is to keep it affordable. And you can sit and snip a whole box-full in half, secure the ends and fold down the top inch and stack them back in the back ready to go.
My biggest problem was remembering to take the danged things OFF when she went outside. Just because a dog can't fully "hold it" they HATE being treated like they don't want to go outside. Socks would hold it as much as she could and WANTED to.
So we used to put a paper sign on the DOORKNOB to the back door "TAKE OF HER BRITCHES" because you get used to seeing them on her inside and then dang do they get upset with you if they go out and squat and fill them. ohhhhh, did that merit me a few bad looks!!!
The Shishandra was something I got from Dr. DiNatale -- Morningstar doesn't carry that. I used to give her a full dropperfull in her food twice a day. I don't *think* it's a prescription thing (some Oriental medicine herbs are) but it doesn't seem to be super widely available. You can Google for it.
Do you think it is *just* spay incontinence?? I *think* that was the only thing she was on specifically for that ... she took a load of stuff because of the heart issues and Lasix among it -- and *that* was mostly what caused Socks' incontinence altho she, in later years, had a tumor in the urinary tract that exacerbated everything, so I'm not completely positive and this was 3-5 years ago.
Shishandra isn't vile -- but it's sharp tasting -- almost peppery in a way. Socks didn't object to it in her food, but she was also a Hoover. But rather than being bitter it was just almost a condiment taste, if that makes sense.
SINCE that time I've also found these (and I have never used them myself altho they are all sensible things and I don't think any of the ingredients are contra-indicated for dogs):
HerbParm's "Calm Waters" -- made specifically for aged incontinence or children's bedwetting: Contains:* Corn Silk [stigma & style] (Zea mays) 25% * St. John’s Wort flowering tops (Hypericum perforatum) 25% * Plantain leaf (Plantago lanceolata & major) 25% * Goldenrod flowering tops (Solidago canadensis) 15% * Arnica flower (Arnica montana) 10%
Also Dr. Christopher's "Kid-e-Dry" is a non-alcohol tincture. Again specifically for bedwetting and contains: Ingredients: Parsley Root, Juniper Berries, Marshmallow Root, White Pond Lily, Gravel Root, Uva Ursi, Lobelia, Ginger Root & Black Cohosh Root.
both would be good products (HerbPharm is wildcrafted and I'd bet Dr. Christopher's is at least super high quality -- I like his stuff a lot) -- you can order right from Dr. Christopher's website (I use a couple of his ointments), and anyplace that stocks HerbPharm should be able to order the Calm Waters for you -- but I've never used either of those -- both are pretty 'new' at least for anything *I* have found.
I wish I had more hands on experience -- I wish I'd had that HerbPharm one for Socks.