nfowler
Posted : 4/11/2006 12:43:36 AM
Thanks you two. I knew you'd be positive. I'm only on this late because I've been working for the past two hours online and thought this would make my night end on a more positive note.
I have given El a supplement, but thanks for encouraging that one. I hope it isn't contributing to her crystals! (just kidding--I think) I'll ask the vet tomorrow and go from there. I guess one of my worries was that there were 5 puppies dumped at the shelter a little under 3 years ago, and apparently Ellie already had that broken back right leg. So, Murphy probably had his HD and recently El and Murph's foster mom told me that one of their other sisters (who she adopted because nobody wanted her) is having trouble getting up. I should say, though, that she's a more, er, generous-sized girl. She's like a big Murphy. And I mean big. So, 2 out of 5 there. However, El is slim and so is Murphy (more on that in a second) so if I can get rid of my guilt over somehow lucking out with the HD dogs, then things will be fine, right? Until they're not and then, as you've both said, we deal with things then.
Okay, so enough on that. Murphy has lost 10 lbs since coming to my house (we'll be celebrating his 6-month anniversary of being with me in 2 weeks). Both of them will be 3 in June, but can I just say you wouldn't know it to see them? They are so flipping immature I can't believe it. Can you do any worse for yourself than to get terrier/lab mixes? You get the mouthy, the pushy, the insistent, the toughies, the stick-thin legs and Lab torso shapes. You get it all with this kind of a mix. I always thought Ellie would magically change when she turned one1. And then 1 came and went and she was the same--naughty. And then 2 came and went and yes, she was the same. And now I have two of them. Two siblings. Oh boy. The only difference is that Ellie is sneaky and Murphy is not. Other than that, yes, both very similar.
On a lighter note (once again), Murphy is the first male dog I've ever had and I can see a difference (a BIG difference) between him and the females. You know how some men really think that "forcing it" will fix things? They beat on the water pipes, rip out (rather than unscrew) objects, push really hard as they fix up a fence, etc?
Well, that's so Murphy. They have some shared puzzles, puzzles that El has managed so nicely to keep in decent working order, and he's just slammed through them, broken them, ripped them up, and made some of them useless. He doesn't want to take the time to "roll" a cube around, he wants to rip it open and take the treats out. And so he has.
Now he can no longer play with some of her puzzles because he's too rough on them! I won't let him. He watches her, fascinated, as she rolls things around and as she carries and drops her puzzles, but he lacks patience and ends up "forcing" them all. Amazing. Just so amazing. I shouldn't be shocked. And he's very quick to grab them from me so that he can force things out of them, too. Oh boy.
But the part I really like is his constant loyalty to me. My sister came over tonight and Murphy, shy, AntiSocial Murphy lay in the doorway, keeping his distance, but being where he could see me. He's really so into me. So into me. He loves to put his head on me and rest (neither Kina nor Ellie have ever done that) and when a Lab puppy came to crawl into my lap at a class a couple of weeks ago, Murph pushed him off with a small growl. Nobody is going to take his Mom away. Nobody. (Of course Ellie is the boss of Murphy so he doesn't ever pop off at her. But anyone else? Oh yes.)
He's settling down more and more, but he's definitely a go get 'em guy. No wonder he's lost weight! The guy hardly sleeps when I'm home. He's up wtih me and he's busy--ripping into this toy and that toy, constantly checking on the cats, following me around. He's amazing. If he didn't have HD, I'd fear for my sanity. As it is, I get a tiny bit of relief from him and his constant need to be "on the go."
He's a blast, really, and I like having a boy dog, even if he's a "forcer" one.