Look for a new vet or stay and risk it again?

    • Bronze

    Look for a new vet or stay and risk it again?

    I lost my oldest boy who was 13 and was in pretty good health.He wasn't showing any signs of illness until last week when he wouldn't eat which right away signaled something was up. Kept drinking lots of water and vomiting so I took him to his vet the next day. Vet kept insisting it was something he probably had ingested which I stood firm in suggesting it was not and told us to go home and give it time to come out. Two days later still no eating only water and vomiting, extremely week and breathing heavy. Took him back and vet finally agreed to do blood work up - he ran it twice and said everything else looked ok except the blood count which was extremely low. Gave him some fluids and a shot of prednisone and said to come back on Monday. He never made it back. On Sunday my little boy passed away and I felt very helpless because there was nothing I could do. I just don't know if I can put my other baby in this vets hands. He never listened to the fact that I told him I know my boys very well and this was not symptoms of ingesting something he shouldn't have. Any advice.

    • Gold Top Dog

     Oh dear, how sad.  I am so sorry for your loss.

     I would find another vet.

     

    • Gold Top Dog

    I'm so sorry about the loss of your dog.  The bottom line is that you've lost confidence in him and that alone is reason enough to find someone else.  I changed vets after an experience with one of my dogs (diagnosed with cancer) that caused me to lose faith in her.  I don't think she's a bad vet but for me and my dogs, she wasn't the right vet.  I've been happy with the new clinic.  Sometimes it takes a serious illness to really find out if a vet is willing to listen and respond to your concerns.  I've learned one thing and that's not to let any vet sway me if I feel they're missing something. 

    (((hugs)))

    • Gold Top Dog
    Of course I can't tell for sure, but that sounds so similar to what happens to dogs with IMHA -- they suddenly "crash" and if the vet doesn't do bloodwork right away to find the low hematacrit (altho they should see it when they look in their mouth) ... and even sometimes if they do -- they get some prednisone and are told to come back "in a few days".

    With IMHA that's insane. With a very very low hematacrit that is ... insane. When a dog comes in with the kind of distress you're talking about (all severe symptoms -- particularly the breathing problems) -- more diagnostics should have been done on the FIRST visit -- that saying that the vet felt they could DO such diagnostics which do cost money.

    All that said -- and it could be totally irrelevant because not enough diagnostic work was done to know exactly what was wrong with your dog -- but as Jackie says you have lost faith in that vet and THAT ALONE is absolutely sufficient to find a different vet. If it was something severe like IMHA or something else (it could have been several different things) then it was likely beyond that vet to treat it anyway -- BUT if the vet felt it was something severe/terminal like that either the vet should have told you, or sent you on to a vet school or specialist.

    You're now left with grief and questions. If it is something like IMHA or organ failure or .... whatever ... you don't even have closure enough to know what happened -- when should you have brought the dog in? What was wrong? How can you prevent it from happening again.

    I am so very very sorry. I work a lot with people with IMHA dogs and the sad fact is a lot of vets just really don't have the equipment and training to treat something like IMHA. My own vet was NOT equal to the task 7+ years ago.

    But that's when he said to me "Mrs. K -- what we're doing is NOT working -- can you go to Gainesville to the Vet School ... NOW?" (4 hour trip).

    It wasn't me who saved my dog. Ultimately it was the vet school, but the first one to help him was MY VET who said "I don't know this ... go where they WILL know and can do it better than I can"

    Did I look down on him because he couldn't treat him? Absolutely not -- because he was honest and sent me elsewhere.

    To me he was a hero that day ... Joanne - it is never wrong to go for a second opinion ... even if you have to drive a long long ways to someplace like a vet school or specialist. We are their advocates. Often ... you may be the only one who knows your dog isn't well.

    My deepest sympathies to you -- what a horrible horrible thing to have happen, and now you are left feeling ... wronged.
    • Gold Top Dog
    Yep, I would witch vets. It doesn't do you any good at this point to play the what if game because you just don't know. However if you don't trust the vet then find another. I have switched vets over a lot less.
    • Gold Top Dog

    Jewlieee
    It doesn't do you any good at this point to play the what if game because you just don't know

     

    That's the truth ^ and no one on the internet can diagnose or even make an educated guess about what might have been wrong with your dog, so don't feel like you let your dog down by not doing this or that.