I will see you again someday, Buster...

Rainbow Bridge

The Rainbow Bridge is the theme of a work of poetic prose written some time between 1980 and 1992, whose original creator is unknown. The theme is of an other-worldly place to which a pet goes upon its death, eventually to be reunited with its owner.
    • Gold Top Dog

    I will see you again someday, Buster...

    My beautiful Buster has gone to the bridge.  I waited as long as I could and as long as he wanted me to.  He didn’t eat breakfast on Thursday morning because he has just been so frustrated with his tumor and hasn’t finished a meal since.  The tumor had also been bleeding quite a bit.  It was time.  This has been the hardest decision I have ever had to make.  He still wanted to be here; he still wanted to be with me.  However, Saturday February 7, 2009 I had to take him in.  He just wasn’t happy anymore.  He went peacefully and after my sister and I just held each other and cried.  It was so hard to leave him in that room after it was done. 
    Buster's story:
    Buster was a Christmas present to my sister and I from our dad in 1994.  We opened our gifts and when we finished he came running up the basement stairs…perfect timing!  Tail wagging, wiggling all around.  He was so excited that he peed on the couch…which ended his furniture days with dad.  I had wanted a new dog for quite some time, but dad led us to believe that we wouldn’t be getting one for a year or so.  He chose Buster because he was the youngest one at the shelter, 3 months old was their estimate (and I am so glad he chose him).  He was found as a stray at about three months, very skinny, and very shy.  He quickly filled out and learned to love everyone and his unique cry when he was excited made him even more memorable.  My dad used to say he was the friendliest dog ever.  Buster grew up with my sister and I as we came and went from dads to moms for about 7 years.
     Buster chose me to be his person.  I was his favorite.  I walked him in the neighborhood.   I let him sleep on the bed with me (even though he wasn’t supposed to).  He quickly learned that when he heard dad coming, he needed to get off quickly.  I fed him, bathed him, and LOVED him.  When my dad got sick in 2000, I started taking Buster with me to my mom’s more and more.  Early in 2002 or late in 2001 (can’t remember which) Buster came to live with me permanently at my mom’s.  In 2004 Buster and I moved in with Matt and his dogs, Max and Lady.  Everyone got along well, although Buster was quite jealous and required ALL of my attention.   He loved to sit by me and sleep between Matt and I at night.  He was there for me through good times and bad times.  He was there for me when dad passed away, he was there when I got engaged, he was there when I got married, and he has been there through everything in between.  In return, I have helped him through this cancer and lengthened his life as much as I could.  I cleaned up his tumor, looked for different foods that would be easier to chew, and even hand fed him his wet food when he could no longer eat out of a bowl.  It has been nearly two years since he was diagnosed with bone cancer.  He had shown almost no signs of being sick up until this past November.   It was then that the tumor started to grow on his lower jaw.  Everything has happened so fast since then.
    Buster is my heart dog.  He will always be the best dog ever and he will always be in my heart and in my thoughts.  I don’t know that any other dog will live up to him.  Even though he was with me for 14 years, it just didn’t feel like long enough. 
    I want to thank everyone who offered me support.   It has really helped me make it through this difficult time.  If you ever met Buster you would have fallen instantly in love with him.  He was a sweetheart.
    I love you Buster and I will never forget you.  September 1994 – February 7, 2009.
    A video of his unique excited greeting:

    http://s32.photobucket.com/albums/d22/GeorgAnneDapper/?action=view¤t=MVI_0306.flv

    • Gold Top Dog
    Oh, Buster. I know you are running free at the Bridge, sweetie.

    Big hugs, Georgie.

    • Gold Top Dog

    Run free, Buster, and sing us a song.

    And thank you for letting us know him better.

     

    • Gold Top Dog

    GeorgAnne, I am so sorry (((((hugs)))))

    • Gold Top Dog

     You gave Buster a very wonderful dog life  <3

    • Gold Top Dog

    I know the sadness you feel and all I can say is that it will get better in time. Your story is beautiful and you and Buster were truly blessed to have had each other. Those memories will carry your thru this difficult time. {{{{{HUGS}}}}}

    Run free Buster.

    • Gold Top Dog

    There are no words, we are so sorry!

    • Gold Top Dog

     

     At the bottom of the Bridge Saturday morning there sat a little MOstlie Sheltie and a little black pom/peke mix and a LOT of other dogs.  Many of them didn't really "know" each other until they got to talking and realized that their humans knew each other on that "computer" thing ... so must be they were "waiting" for one like them.  When the old greyhound mix stepped thru the mist at the top of the Bridge ... every step he moved forward he became younger and younger and by the time he reached the bottom oh my, he was a striking dog!! 

    They all began to bark and yip at once, but soon order was restored and questioned answered.  The greyhound named Buster kept asking the same question "Is she OK?  Is MY Georg ok??  She's alone ... she's without ME ... will she be ok?"

    The little pom/peke mix looked up at him and gave herself a little shake.  Buster noticed she had just a tiny bit of white at the tips of her toes and a blaze on her chest - it seemed impossible that such a young dog could be so wise!

    "Yes, Buster -- she's fine.  And right now she has many of her human friends comforting HER because she is as lonely as you are.  But you'll both be fine and this is a wonderful place.  And you'll soon see that we all have quite a lot in common!"


    Buster looked at the young, strong little dog and said "But you don't understand because you're obviously a very young dog .. I'm a VERY old dog and she was with me a long, long time ..."

    Prissy wagged and rumbled in her throat as amused dogs do and said "Sir ---  you are most kind ... but I'm nearly 21 in human years.  But when we come to this wonderful place we are ALL young and full of vigor again.  We're pretty much all just as we were when life was best.  After conferring with each other waiting for your arrival, we all realized that each of us were on earth a very long long time and reluctantly left a human who meant very very much to us.  But even more -- it seems that apparently most of our humans all knew each other on this ... com .... com ...."

    "COMPUTER, Prissy!!  They're machines and they can be wonderful!!!  Mom had one ... well MANY after you had come to the Bridge and I was left to take care of her.  She was good on it but we got to know SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO many people that way!!  People and other dogs.  I see dogs in this group ... hmmm ... Rusty  ... and Dancer ... and Tonka ... and  [stretching his MOstlie Sheltie long neck] SHADOW ... and ..."

    Prissy nudged him (almost making him fall over) "OK OK OK we GOT it Foxy!! I do believe you know **everyone**!!!"

    Foxy looked over at the greyhound mix and said "Buster?  Is that YOU???  GeorgAnne's Buster?  Wow buddy -- I 'member you and I been a gone a while!!"

    Buster looked around and realized he wasn't alone at all ... the grass was so soft and green and warm ... it seemed like a good time to sit and watch and find out about this new place.  He felt pretty good .. still strange, but good.  A good place ... to wait.

    • Gold Top Dog

    Run free sweet Buster.

    GeorgAnne, thanks so much for sharing him with us.

    • Gold Top Dog

    Oh, GeorgAnne, I'm so glad you took the time to share with us at this difficult time.  

    It was so hard to leave him in that room after it was done.

    This was the hardest for me also.

    May you find peace and hope at this time.  I still have a tab for Buster in my spreadsheet -  I wish I could have helped more but "Buster's diet plan" will help many more dogs in the future, I'm sure.

    • Gold Top Dog

    Thank you all so much for everything.  Buster is the one who brought me to this forum and I am so glad he did.  I am having a really hard time with this.  I have only ever lost two people who were very important to me (my dad and DH's mom) and now Buster, and this really hurts.

    I am now getting ready for work and I just hope I can make it through the short 5 hour shift without crying.  I work in a doggy boarding kennel so it will be hard and maybe helpful.  I sort of hope none of our greyhounds are there.  There are two that really resembled Buster and I can see myself breaking down and just holding them and crying.  The hardest thing is when people say, "I'm so sorry about Buster"...that's when I cry, it's like on cue.  I am just going to try my hardest.  I started crying this morning when they mentioned greyhound buses on the radio, lol.  I thought I was ok and then at the end of the commercial, I just broke down.

     

    • Gold Top Dog

    I fell in love with Buster from reading your posts.  My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family through these sad times.  Hugs. 

    • Gold Top Dog

     I am thinking of you.  Biggest hugs!

    I also wanted to say, I enjoyed reading about him... it was a lovely tribute.  I feel like I knew him, and now I will miss him too.

    • Gold Top Dog

    Our very deepest condolences.

    Tena and Jewel

    • Gold Top Dog

    My heart goes out to you, I know what your feeling.  The hardest part for me was leaving my April in that room too, and when I try to bring a picture of her up in my head that seems to be all I can remember.  They are at the bridge now and all together having a wonderful time, we will see them again!