I lost my best friend yesterday

Rainbow Bridge

The Rainbow Bridge is the theme of a work of poetic prose written some time between 1980 and 1992, whose original creator is unknown. The theme is of an other-worldly place to which a pet goes upon its death, eventually to be reunited with its owner.
    • Gold Top Dog

    I lost my best friend yesterday

    I lost my little buddy yesterday after 7 years of trying to resolve his biting/aggression problems. I got the little guy when he was 8 months old and he had so many issues/insecurities because of the bad life he had before me. He had been adopted out and return twice before I took him in. In time he adapted to his new life and gave me and everyone he came into contact with so much joy. But as time progressed the one thing that never left him is his fears and insecurities that he developed as a scared puppy on the streets. I never held it against him, but did everything I could to help him let go of those fears. Training along with behavioral and environment modification were used in order to minimize any situations which would trigger an event. However it reached a point that so many of the ones I loved had been bitten and the ever present prospect that he could bite again, I had to come to the difficult decision to put him down. This was by no means an easy decision for me because I promised him I would never give up on him.

     Yesterday was the first time that he looked completely at peace. He no longer has to carry the emotional scars of his days as a puppy. I have 7 years of wonderful memories and believe that I gave him the happier and longer life than he could have ever expected. Although he only lived to be 8 years old I believed that each day was lived to the fullest and that he is running free now. I will never have to watch arthritis set in and prevent him from being the youthful guy he was or ever witness a serious illness rob the fullness of his days. I loved him with every bit of my heart and I believe that he understands.

    Run free little fur ball and wait for me when my day comes.

     

    • Gold Top Dog

    He was absolutely beautiful......I am so sorry you had to come to that decision, and I am sure you tried your hardest.....but, sometimes we can't fix everything........may he run free.......

    • Gold Top Dog

    AT a loss -- truly it IS the most loving and beautiful gift we can give them.  I think with some dogs they have seen such abuse that it truly marks them emotionally and altho they can have a good life with a lot of love and care, I also think that deep down they carry a horribly heavy burden.  To know how deeply it grieves those who love them when they bite and do things that are simply scars and baggage -- it must make them horribly sad and confused.

    Your statement that it's the first time you ever saw him "at peace" -- take that as your affirmation that you truly did him a kindness.  You released him from a prison of sorts and altho he loved you dearly, I'm sure he tumbled over the Bridge and ran to the first dog he saw and said "Wowwwwwwwwwww -- this IS a real place and I don't ... wow I FEEL LIGHT!!!!! SHE LOVED ME SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH she sent me on ahead .... oh wow, somebuddy PLEASE tell me I'll see her again ... and does EVERBUDDY feel different when they get here?  Am I really FREEE??????"

    And a little brown and white heaven-knows-what mix named Pollyanna was waiting for him at the bottom of the Bridge.  Her scars were many and her abuser broke her back ... I loved her with everything that was in me but her injuries were too numerous and a stroke took her from me.  But I'm a realist -- I know it was a blessing because I saw the terror in her eyes and I know it would have haunted her.

    I believe in Rainbow Bridge with all my heart -- to my mind it's just something that my Alpha of all Alphas *would* do.  And I think those who have gone before and will share a special understanding with the one who just crossed over are *called*.  I don't think anybuddy ever arrives alone and confused -- I think they are met with love and all the explanation any animal would want.

    You did the loving thing.  *hugs*  The Alpha of all Alphas certainly picked a wonderful human to love your best friend for his time here.  Time helps -- but holler any time if you need a shoulder.  Many of us understand.

    • Gold Top Dog

     Whenever Callie posts ahead of me in a thread like this, I know I need say no more.  Run free little one, mommy will be along after a time...

    • Gold Top Dog

    rest easy, he does.

    • Gold Top Dog

    A friend sent this to me today -- and I just think it's marvelous.  Most of you have heard it but it's just plain good:

    Dog Logic...


    A Dog's Purpose, (from a 6-year-old)

    Being a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a ten-year-old Irish
    Wolfhound named Belker. The dog's owners, Ron, his wife, Lisa, and their
    little boy, Shane, were all very attached to Belker, and they were
    hoping for a miracle.

    I examined Belker and found he was dying of cancer. I told the family we
    couldn't do anything for Belker, and offered to perform the euthanasia
    procedure for the old dog in their home.

    As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me they thought it would be
    good for six-year-old Shane to observe the procedure. They felt as though
    Shane might learn something from the experience.

    The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker's family
    surrounded him. Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog for the last
    time, that I wondered if he understood what was going on. Within a
    few minutes, Belker slipped peacefully away.

    The little boy seemed to accept Belker's transition without any
    difficulty or confusion. We sat together for a while after Belker's
    death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are
    shorter than human lives.  Shane, who had been listening quietly,
    piped up, 'I know why.'

    Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next
    stunned me.  I'd never heard a more comforting explanation. He said,
    'People are born so that they can learn how to live a good life --
    like loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?' The
    six-year-old continued, 'Well, dogs already know how to do that,
    so they don't have to stay as long.'

    Live simply. Love generously. Care deeply. Speak kindly.

    Remember, if a dog was the teacher you would learn things like:

    When loved ones come home, always run to greet them.
    Never pass up the opportunity to go for a joyride.
    Allow the experience of fresh air and the wind in your face to be pure
    ecstasy.
    Take naps.
    Stretch before rising.
    Run, romp, and play daily.
    Thrive on attention and let people touch you.
    Avoid biting when a simple growl will do.
    On warm days, stop to lie on your back on the grass.
    On hot days, drink lots of water and lie under a shady tree.
    When you're happy, dance around and wag your entire body.
    Delight in the simple joy of a long walk.
    Eat with gusto and enthusiasm. Stop when you have had enough.
    Be loyal. Never pretend to be something you're not.
    If what you want lies buried, dig until you find it.
    When someone is having a bad day, be silent, sit close by and nuzzle
    them gently.
    Be always grateful for each new day.
    ENJOY EVERY MOMENT OF EVERY DAY
    • Gold Top Dog

    Run free sweet one

    • Gold Top Dog

     I'm so sorry, I remember you posting about all your challenges with him and all you tried to help him along the way. I think you did truly do him a kindness, and I admire all of the work and dedication you put in to helping him for as long as you could. I know he does, too.

    • Gold Top Dog

    So sorry - know that you did not give up on him; rather you listened to him and released him from a world that wasn't right for him.  I know it was very, very hard to do, but it was right for him.

    • Gold Top Dog

    I am so sorry for your loss.  Your little buddy was so fortunate to have you as his buddy!  Run Free little buddy!!!!!

    • Gold Top Dog

    your story brought me to tears. I am so sorry that you had to come to this desicion. But, he WILL wait for you! I know he will.

    • Moderators
    • Gold Top Dog

    I am so sorry for your hurting heart.  He's peaceful and happy over the bridge... and will have plenty of thanks to give you for all that you tried to give him a good life here on earth.

    • Gold Top Dog

    Bless your heart for giving him those good years.  Run free little dog and play with my April in doggy heaven.  We will meet you all one day.

    • Gold Top Dog

    So sorry for your loss.  You did your best!

    • Gold Top Dog

    i'm so very sorry fo your loss.  he was a handsome guy:)