Re: Locked threads

    • Gold Top Dog

    Re: Locked threads

     I received the following PM from DougB:

    "I realize  that locking this is your decision to make.  I am assuming, with the associated risk,  that the reason has to do with the religious profiling.  Yes, there were some anti JW statements.  But what should be pointed out is that the anti JW comments were confronted within the thread, by members.  Some thoughtful and thought provoking thinks were said and discussed from differing viewpoints.  Perhaps a warning that guided the discussion away from the religious aspect and into the dog related would have been sufficient. 

    I find that the lockdown has a stifling effect on what I feel free to comment about.  I have noticed that when I get out of line or make a mistake here, somebody usually points it out.  When I get slapped down in a thread, I can argue or respond or sulk in my office till I understand what was said.  With a lock down, I can not reply or question."

     I replied:

    "Hi Doug,


    Thank you for taking the time to write me and express your concerns. I've always respected your thoughtful posting style and always welcome hearing from you!

    The decision to lock the thread was not one made lightly, or rashly.  You are correct, it was in regards the the religious commentary that the decision was made.  I've noticed that people tend to "jump on the bandwagon" as in any tight knit group.  While there were people who were defending the religion.... it remained completely inappropriate in many ways.  The one that was the true "clincher" (if you will) is that this was not only off topic, it's off topic for the board as a whole.  It's a dog forum. 

    Please bear in mind that this is only the second thread to be locked thread in at least a year, if not 2 or more years.  So, it's not that we are just running around willy-nilly locking threads as the mood strikes.  I think you'll find most forums use way more moderation than we do here and thus the locking feature.  We truly encourage an environment that is ripe for a free-exchange of thought.  However, imagine how you'd feel if you came to the forum as a JW and found that thread still raging?  Do you think you'd be A. More likely to join the group, or B. Less likely to join the group because you fear your religion makes you unwelcome?  

    I certainly hope that this hasn't stifled communication in any regard except in maybe how we approach tolerance of others and respect towards their religious values, regardless of how they may differ from ours.

    I have heard your opinion and want you to know I seriously considered your perspective. I think your point has merit, however I have to consider the whole and truly feel that this thread needs to be locked as a reminder to the forum that this was unacceptable behavior.

     Thanks so much again,

    Lani"

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    • Gold Top Dog

    very nice, and thorough, response, Lani.  I don't know where you found the time (!!!), but lucky for Doug you did!!!!

    • Gold Top Dog

    miranadobe

    very nice, and thorough, response, Lani.  I don't know where you found the time (!!!), but lucky for Doug you did!!!!

     


    Thank you Paige.... I was hoping that it was thorough and made sense to him. I've always liked Doug and really respect them... I was actually surprised to hear from him!

    I did it during lunch, I received it this morning and kind of chewed on it through the morning. I think it took all my brain cells to come up with LOL ... good thing I didn't drink last night!!

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    • Gold Top Dog

    ah ha - THIS is the other locked thread Heather was talking about!

    Please, they should be members of other forums where people are NASTY and threads are locked without any real reason other than the mods really DO want to stop discussion! We leave almsot everything of ours open for years!