If You Had Only Known...

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    Maggie is a lhasa apso and I didn't even know we were getting her until a week after we had her (I was at camp) so...

    My dad says he would have liked to know how much they cost, because he wouldn't have gotten her, but I'm glad he didn't know, because I had been wanting a dog for forever (though I wanted a bit of a larger dog)

    Maggie is
    A watch dog. She barks at people, cats, and other moving objects.
    She is also very wary teenaged guys, and some adults.
    Smart and stubborn.
    She gaurds her human. When she was younger and slept in my bed if I was there she would never let anyone near me.
    Will learn what you tell her, not what you meant to tell her.
    Their hair! You either have to learn to groom yourself, or take them to a gromer every month or two.
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    I wish I had realized that lab pups will eat anything that will fit into their mouths....
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    I've done a lot of research on a lot of breeds, especially the ones i have. I would NEVER go back and get a different breed other than what i have. However, there were some things i was not aware of. I didn't realize that GSDs were so whiny! kaiser can't go on a 5 minute car ride without whining. I knew they were energetic, but good lord i didn't realize that they could go all day. I've walked Kaiser 7 miles before, and he still played with Wyatt when we got home! I also thought that if he was very socialized, he would not be too protective...wrong again. I've owned ridgebacks before, but never a male. He is very stubborn. I also kept reading all this stuff about ridgebacks being really energetic, but i just don't see it. He'll play for about 30 minutes and then just lie down...dog park or wherever. I like to walk long distances, and i feel bad bringing Wyatt because after 3 miles, he's tired!
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    The dog of my teenage years is a long-haired chihuahua, Sophie. She is now 13 years old and stayed living with my mom and the 2 cats (who she loves).
     
    We bought her with very little research. Here's what I found:
     
    - Major barking. When people come in the door all the alarm bells go off and she doesn't stop until the person bends down to say hi.
     
    - Doesn't really like walking. This might be unique to her, but walks always looked miserable for her.
     
    - In my opinion, a Chi needs a fair sized backyard despite their size. They love running in big circles.
     
    - Ours became a resource guarder quite naturally - it's easy to forget that small breeds need all the same behavioral training as the big ones.
     
    - Picky eaters - be prepared for some creative meals prep as they get older.
     
    Sophie is one of the most wonderful, intelligent dogs I've ever known. I feel perplexed when I see so many posts like "chis are so hard to housetrain" and stuff. She was housetrained after 2 weeks and has not had ONE SINGLE accident in her 13 years. I don't know if it's a result of bad breeding practices now that chis are so popular... but Sophie was from a great breeder and so smart and trainable. I would be very picky about which breeder you buy from when buying a chi nowadays.
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    Border collie:

    I knew all the stuff they warn you about and was prepared. Yup. had a job for the pup to do. Yup, I'd already raised a pup that was an elemental destructive force of nature. What I wasn't prepared for -

    Reactivity. Yes, I ended up giving up a dog on this point. I wouldn't now but I wouldn't be happy about having to manage it - I try to stay away from the exteme reactive bloodlines now. Reactivity means that if you aren't paying attention, the dog will decide to do something about movement/something scary/something interesting. Almost certainly you won't like what it decides to do and smiliar to xerxes' description of the Pharoah hound, you won't be able to stop it. The time to stop reactive behavior is when the dog is thinking about. Hard to see. and harder to then react to yourself - approprately. Once a reactive behavior is set in (may take all of one or two reps, see below), it's paddling upstream to get rid of it and it's seldom you can say for sure, "It's gone." You may see all the signs, extinction burst, etc, and then it will pop up again because some BCs find it almost impossible to generalize (see third item below).

    BCs make associative connections at lightning speed. Two reps are normal, one is not exeptional. This means it takes, often only one time of letting a BC do something you don't want them to, to fix a behavior. A pet owner unwilling to use corrections needs to see very far ahead and use a whole lot of prevention. This is another one that made me rehome two dogs. Part of the reason was that they had both been allowed to develop bad habits on stock and faced the stress of undoing that every time. Stock is basically all I offer here - even time in the house is limited due to farm work. They were highly reactive and couldn't just walk around doing chores like I do with the rest of my dogs, and their time on stock was terribly stressful both for them, and for the sheep increasingly. I had the chance to give them homes doing what they liked to do and they are in hog heaven now.

    BCs define associations very tightly. This means it's hard for them to generalize - some find it impossible. They will work well with a highly consisent trainer who presents the association exactly the same way every time, but blow up with someone more wishy washy, though it may seem that there's no difference in what is being required. I rehomed a dog, a very nice dog, over this one. He was one that was both of the above to the top extremes, which I'd learned to deal with, but he also had this "feature" to an extreme. I'm struggling with this issue in my training style - my communication was not clear enough for this dog at all. Kablooey. He stopped working for me entirely. I traded him to my trainer for a dog that needed someone more patient.

    The last one was a surprise but it's been a delightful one.

    BCs offer a huge variety within the breed, of learning styles, temperaments, potential, physical looks and personalities. The variation is so strong that even a newcomer like me (I've only been "in" the breed for twelve years or so) can spot family similiarities and make predictions about important things like the above characteristics. It makes me twitch to hear an "outsider" say "All (or even most) BCs do/are X." It's almost certainly not true. The closest thing we have to homogeny within the breed lies in characteristics such as I've described above - it's in the potental to work stock in a certain way and be trained up to a certain level. The newcomer to the breed has to take care, however, because the fact that personalities and learning styles are so different can get a companion owner in trouble, even one ready for the high energy level, blah, blah.

    Chinese crested:

    Clingy/touchy. I think I would have steeled my heart against Zhi if I had known how important touching is to her. I have to actually budget in time in my busy schedule for snuggling. I thought it would just be OK if she went everywhere with me, which has worked out fine. It's OK - I've learned to invite her up anytime I come in for a landing. I'm sitting on my bed watching sheep graze right now and she's next to me. Well, Cord is too, but we talked above about the variety in BCs - Cord is a 46 pound lap dog.

    Health. I was prepared for all this stuff but in my heart of hearts poo-poohed the warnings about not letting them get sunburnt, etc. I now keep 45 SPF suncreen in my pocket when we are out and about because indeed, even on cloudy days Zhi burns like a fair skinned person, even through suncreen. And she has summer outfits now as well as winter, to block the sun. When she gets burned her skin breaks out, becomes susceptible to infections, generally gets icky. I'm also not used to the fragility of a small dog - it's hit home again today since Zhi was horsing around with the big dogs and one of them pushed her right into a freshly cut bush. She wouldn't have damaged herself running into the cutoff branch, but the weight of teh other dog ran the branch edge right up her glutus maximus. She'll be OK - couple of stiches and a few days of bed rest but now I hesitate about letting the little tomboy play with the big dogs. Physical delicacy is NOT a hill I would have died on though and I'd get another CC in a heartbeat if I were forced into a different lifestyle. I'm already wondering whether it would be awful if I inflicted another crestie on this family as company for Zhi, but then I pause at all the grooming, clothes, yikes times two. Nah. [;)]

    I gave up a Jack Russell because he was NOT like a JRT. But I suspect like other working breeds, the JRT has a wide enough variety in the breed that I was taken by surprise that way. Ketch was unhappy with the big dogs, he was far from spunky, being timid and unwilling to try new things. He was clingy and soft - and when a chance came to rehome him with someone who wanted a JRT as a buddy for her female JRT, I jumped at it. His new mom found his "terrier" button and used it to work him in flyball and agility. He now has more titles than his housemate who was well bred from working lines (Ketch was a rescue from a cattle farm).
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    How dominate Dobermans really are. Prince needs firm structure, training, and boundaries or he will take over the house! He is also very "posturing" with other dogs when he first meets them.
     
    What big babies they really are - just raise your voice to correct him and Prince starts to melt away! When you read that Dobermans are big, overprotective babies...that totally hits the nail on the head.
     
    I did alot of research before we got a Dobe so knew what we were getting into. But those 2 things were more than what we expected they would be.
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    I wanted a pit bull soooo bad, so I did a ton of research and was prepared for most.
    The good surprises- they are the biggest clowns, really goofy dogs and they are always SO happy!
    my dad has had some grumpy dogs but my girl is never down.
    The bad surprises-now I knew thye wernt the most favored dogs but I had no idea how outright mean people could be to my face. I also never realized that humans could be so opinionated about something they really havnt taken the time to educate themselves on.
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    ORIGINAL: sheprano

    I wanted a pit bull soooo bad, so I did a ton of research and was prepared for most.
    The good surprises- they are the biggest clowns, really goofy dogs and they are always SO happy!
    my dad has had some grumpy dogs but my girl is never down.
    The bad surprises-now I knew thye wernt the most favored dogs but I had no idea how outright mean people could be to my face. I also never realized that humans could be so opinionated about something they really havnt taken the time to educate themselves on.


    exactly.

    The only things I didn't know, that isn't that big of a deal: The strength of a pit bull. WOW. I remember when I first brought Ella home from the shelter and squeaked her bad cuz ball and she jumped up and put her paw on me, I thought that her paw would go right through my flesh! I then realized that pit bulls have a different strength about them than any other dog.
    She is a LOVEBUG. And she is SO well behaved. She tries SO hard to be good all the time. The vet even commented when she had to scrape her ears. She said, "you know she is trying so hard to stand still and be so good!"
    She rarely barks. I think this must be common among pit bulls because I've read a lot of other pit bull owners say the same thing about their dogs.
    Prey-drive. It's there. She's on it. If I let her, she'd own every squirrel we come across.
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    I had done a lot of research and was prepared for alot and yet pleasantly surprised.  I think the only thing I didn't expect was how important comfort is to my baby.  She broke out of her crate one time because her blanky wasn't fluffy enough, or how she refuses to lay down or sit on anything hard.
    But I would say the biggest surprise was how humans react to her, the shelter warned me that I would have to have a thick skin but I didn't realize what an adverse reaction some people would have to her.
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    I have friend where we used to live who have three rescued pits/pit mixes. Good lord are those dogs strong! Conrad is huge size-wise, and in good shape, but he in no way prepared us to deal with my friend's dogs. They were total forces of nature!
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    Just a funny side thought and maybe some of you have noticed this too.....
    I'm not sure why but my Rory's butt NEVER touches the ground and I mean never cause I sure watch out for it. Her lil bum just barely hovers above the ground it so funny because she looks uncomfertable sitting on her back feet. I dont know if its cause she dosnt have much fur for protection or what but its hilarious. Do any of your dogs do that or maybeone of you know why
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    ORIGINAL: houndlove

    I have friend where we used to live who have three rescued pits/pit mixes. Good lord are those dogs strong! Conrad is huge size-wise, and in good shape, but he in no way prepared us to deal with my friend's dogs. They were total forces of nature!


    Ella usually walks pretty well on a leash. Actually, VERY well. BUT, that can change in a second if she just decides that she wants a squirrel. She never gets them, I don't allow her too. She tries though, occasionally. And in that second, she can PULL. She's CRAAAZY strong.


    Sheprano,
    I've heard lots of people say that about their pit bulls. Ella will sit on her butt, but she is picky about what surface she will sit her butt on.
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    My dog's bum doesn't really touch the floor when he sits either. He hardly has any fur/hair, but I always thought it was b/c his legs were so long.
     
    The one thing I was surprised about my RR was how barky he is. I had read that RRs generally don't bark unless it's serious.  My guy barks at lots of things - dogs walking by the window, dogs in the dogpark, when he hears a noise outside. I think he's getting better, but the thing is his bark is soooooo loud.  One day he barked right near my ear and I thought I lost a little bit of my hearing in that ear :-)
     
    The prey drive I was aware of but didn't realize what that meant for me. He is ok with cats, ducks, etc. but when he see's squirrels then everything else in his world fades away.  It's actually pretty amazing to see how focused he is when he sees one, but also scary.  On walks it is a real struggle to hold him back from.  In the backyard sometimes I'm worried he'll jump our 6 foot fence to get one that just hopped over the fence. 
     
    I'm hoping to try lure coursing soon . . . hopefully that won't make the prey drive stronger!
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    ORIGINAL: chewbecca

    ORIGINAL: houndlove

    I have friend where we used to live who have three rescued pits/pit mixes. Good lord are those dogs strong! Conrad is huge size-wise, and in good shape, but he in no way prepared us to deal with my friend's dogs. They were total forces of nature!


    Ella usually walks pretty well on a leash. Actually, VERY well. BUT, that can change in a second if she just decides that she wants a squirrel. She never gets them, I don't allow her too. She tries though, occasionally. And in that second, she can PULL. She's CRAAAZY strong.


    Sheprano,
    I've heard lots of people say that about their pit bulls. Ella will sit on her butt, but she is picky about what surface she will sit her butt on.

     
    That's weird, Sally does that too!!  I thought it was just her weirdness.  If she would rather not sit on a surface she sort of hover-sits.
     
    We actually did not do a lot of research before Sally, because I wasn't really looking for a dog at the time, and before I met Sally I believed what I heard in the media and would have never gone out and bought or adopted a pit bull.  Then Sally showed up.  My first words when I saw her hanging around the barn (we think she was dumped and had been hanging around for over a week) were "That dog has pit in it, don't get near it.  If it's still here on Saturday I'm calling animal control."
     
    Well, "that dog" is curled in our bed as I type-lol.  When it looked like we were not going to find an owner missing a dog I did some research on pits. 
     
    There was a lot that I was not prepared for though.  I was not prepared for the veniom that some people harbor for this breed.  I was not prepared for the media sensationalism.  I was not prepared for checking BSL alerts weekly.  I was not prepared to write city councils to defend my dog.  I was not prepared to have to defend my to to ALL of my family members.  I was not prepared for how people will tell you to your face that they hate pit bulls AFTER you tell them you have one.  I was not prepared for how people will insult your dog to your face.  I was not prepared for how many times I would have to answer the question "Is it mean?  I was not prepared for the number of times I would have to explain that no, their jaws do NOT lock.  I was not prepared for the fact that I would choose where I live and what products and services based on my dogs breed.  I was not prepared for the inital fear I felt as a dog mom when I realized how many people really wanted to take Sally away and kill her-not because of anything she's done, but because of her breed. 
     
    I was not prepared for the shear number of nitwit owners.  I was not prepared for the creepiness of the some of the people who "eyeball" my dog  much in the same way dirty old men look over 13 year old girls.   I was not prepared for the number of people who believe that if it is a pit bull and has reproductive organs, it should be bred.
     
    However, I also wasn't prepared for how full of life pits are!  Sally has a zest for life that few breeds have.  I wasn't prepared for how sweet she was.  I was not prepared for how affectionate she is.  I was not prepared for such a cuddlebug.  I was not prepared for the amount of love I could feel for her.....
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    However, I also wasn't prepared for how full of life pits are! Sally has a zest for life that few breeds have. I wasn't prepared for how sweet she was. I was not prepared for how affectionate she is. I was not prepared for such a cuddlebug. I was not prepared for the amount of love I could feel for her.....

     
    That's an awesome thing to say.  I'm sure she wasn't prepared for someone like you that would love her unconditionally either.