brookcove
Posted : 8/11/2008 5:09:38 PM
He's an Aussie.
Many times a dog either is not socialized
well, or has "shut down" from the trauma of losing his pack, and you'll
have to actively teach such a dog how to interact with you. Usually
such dogs aren't shy, just smart. A fairly consistent routine is the
best way to help such a dog adjust as quickly as possible. Don't give
in to the temptation to baby him or overwhelm him with demands that he
pay attention to you. What you want is to give him time to watch what
everyone in the house does, and then decide where he fits in. Manage
him with a minimum of contact until he's offering contact on his own,
and then don't go overboard with praise and other stimulation. Just
note what makes him most comfortable and try to design a schedule
around that.
I hope that makes sense. I get the aggressive dogs
mostly but my favorite dog to work with is the
undersocialized/traumatized dog. It's so rewarding to see such dogs
"bloom"! I'm having such a ball this weekend with my Min girl. In
just one week she's gone from hiding in the bathroom to actively asking
to go out and requesting her meals at mealtime. That's the sort of
change you want to see first. Once these dogs have found common
ground, then they can start asking for things like petting. Then
you'll see the real dog and look out!