Posted : 1/21/2009 10:24:56 AM
I'm just going to ask a few questions that might help me or others give you some ideas...
How does she get let out (as in, does she ask to be let outside, or is she on a schedule and you just let her out every so often, etc.)?
Are there particular places she will urinate (you mentioned your husbands side of the closet. Anywhere else that she commonly goes (like on certain things or in certain areas?)?
You mentioned anxiety, so does she seem anxious? This would make more sense to me if it happened when you were gone, but since you crate her that doesn't apply.
How do you respond when you find her urinating or the place she urinated in the house?
Does she drink a lot of water? It could be some health problem besides a UTI that is causing her incontinence.
Did you start over with her housetraining? Many times when a dog is in a shelter they can forget about potty training because they're in such a different environment. If you didn't start from the beginning when you first got her, or when the other trainers tried helping you, that may be something to try.
I'm sure someone will be able to give you some suggestiongs. I know it must be very frustrating for you!