When I want to know about something like this, I go to people who use it (rather than read about it). I listen to people who have used it, and find it unsuccessful or damaging, and weigh their words to determine if it's failure is found in the maneuver or the handler. I listen to people who have...

[quote user="Chuffy"]I Used to HATE having my hair brushed by my mum. It didn't make her a scary person, I just made a fuss when I had my hair done and then tings were fine afterwards - we moved on. But if my mum had pulled a gun on me? Different story. And how do you know that ISN'T...