Please folks...not picking on anyone, offering advice/input.
Blogs are not the best place at this community to ask for help. They are read by only a small percentage of the thousands of members here...and many times, it is hard to respond and have a back and forth dialogue on a blog.
IF you have a behavior or health issue..and you want help...ESPECIALLY if you want help this year sometime...lol...post on the FORUM. That's where the real "meat" of this site is, and all the advice awaits!
Blogs are more a "Day In The Life" type deal where viewpoints and adventures can be read at leisure.
Hope this helps someone....have a great day!