BCMixs:
Same here with a job I recently interviewed for (also social work type - crime victim advocate). They wouldn't even have to train me as I did the job as a volunteer for nearly a year! But, no habla espanola, no trabajo. (That's probably ridiculously wrong, which is why I don't have the job - LOL!) I've been studying Spanish for the past 4 years off and on, getting As in it in my courses in college, but can't hold a conversation and if someone speaks too quickly or I'm trying to respond with something remotely complex, I draw a complete blank. And it's so NOT the same as learning other languages. Both my kids moved to other languages in high school (they learned Spanish in Elem. & MS) because of the complexity of Spanish grammar rules. The language has something like 16 tenses!!! Both of them have said French and German were WAY EASIER to pick up than Spanish was past Level 1.
/whine
So this has ME P*ssed off today... My 4 year old grand daughter was the 3 person to be interviewed for PreK 4 that was 4 months ago. We were denied Pre K 4 classes.... hmmmm I asked "why ?? " "She is too smart...so she is wait listed." Well You almost feel dumb for arguing right?
Then I get a note saying she has moved UP the wait list Yeah !! She is now 24 on the list for WHITE GIRLS.... WTF??!!
My three grand daughters have been in Speech therapy for over a year and a half. They developed Twinspeak... a language that children once in a blue moon find easier than regular English. The Boys understood them and So did the Moms and I , but Grandpa and uncles no chance and strangers thought they spoke a different language!!! So I call today and ask ...
"Where is Ceattle on the Wait List NOW??"
" Good news and Bad news... she is now #4 for WHITE GIRLS but # 20 on the overall list " they say.
"Excuse me???" Today I am more than a bit angry... Supposedly and according to the Committee, it has NOTHING to do with Race or Ethincity.... excuse me WHITE GIRL???
"No," they explain in patient tones "we do the testing then we choose 9 girls and 9 boys for each pre k class." ...
"Your Grand daughter is not as needy academicaly.."..
"Well" says I, "explain the WHITE GIRL remarks...."
" Oh That , well we test them and then we rank them.."
I get that ...... I mean DUH .....
" It has NOTHING to do with Race"......
" WHITE GIRL ??"
" NOPE,,,,, See she is smart"
"Look" I Said... "I have had a child in the program for the last two years, How is she different from her cousins?"
"Well she scored well on her tests..."
"Are you saying that she did better than her cousins?" They live in the same home , have been read the same books and taught the same things... ALL of them knew the ABCs , 123's Colors , basic words and the *** and Jane books how did ceattle suddenly get so much smarter than the older two??
"Well we do not know her cousins so we could not tell you if she was smarter ? "
sighhhhhhh "Okay then back to why she isn't in Pre K 4????" Her cousins Bobby and Caitlyn are a redhead and blonde with waist legnth hair. They are funny and smart and Ceattle shares a room with Cait.
"Does it have anything to do with the fact that so many of our new students are Mexican? " I ask
" NO, No NO NO!!" They hurry to tell me. " The class is divided by 9 and 9 , no race', etc yada yada yada....
"But Last year 14 of the 18 students were Mexican ..." I begin...
" I am sure you are wrong " the counselor says...
" Nope , The year before it was 13 of the 18" I reply
" Can't be" they assure me, " we don't look at race..."
" Yeah right " okay I am ticked off but come on!!
" I don't want to keep beating a dead horse but my grand daughter is a special needs child, she has been in speech therapy for over a year"
" AND you think that makes her more important than another child?" they ask in amazement..
" My understanding of PreK 4 is allowing special needs kids to begin before Kindergarten, letting them have an extra year to acclimate and learn"
" Exactly! This is why so many of the kids MUST be in it"
" Fine I agree but how is a child that speaks primarily Spanish more important than a child in Speech Therapy?"
" Well it's the opp of that , why would your child in speech therapy deserve more than a non english speaking student?"
" Maybe because I and my husband have paid taxes here for nearly 30 years??"
" What makes you think the other parents haven't ??!!"
" Uh because I met most of them the past two years and they , for the most part ended up here after Hurricane Katrina..."
We quibbled a bit more but seriously it was all for NOTHING, she is wait listed for federal aide for Pre school, Wait listed for the Federal Scholarship for Pre school, and Wait listed for DHR since she lives with us, her grandparents so obviously she isn't in "need" Yep Bob and I planned on a second family in our 50's and 60's....
I closed the phone call asking one more time about the Ethnic thingy...... Once more I was assured her cousins made it in due to acedemic need.... Yeah and the fact my little redhead and blonde's last name is RIVERA meant nothing....
If Ali-Boo-Boo gets in next year you ALL will hear such a Stink going on down here !! Her last name is Rivera also and Poor Ceattle's last name is Hicks.... Not exactly an Ethnic flavor to it.... BTW Her big Brother Tristan's last name is the same as mine, Snodgrass.... He did not get in either.....
I do not mind making it about Ethinic or Race but PLEASE don't pretend it isn't... They hired extra aides and teachers the pst 3 years all of whom are fluent in Spanish.....
But I guess it's me being paraniod...... Yes?
Bonita of Bwana