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Night #2 With New Puppy - Need Help!

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  • 02-27-2008 8:15 PM In reply to Infiniti

    New Puppy Whining for hours in Crate -- Please help!

    Yesterday was  our first day with our new lab puppy.  I know what you're thinking .... I am a new dog owner who had no idea what to expect. On the contrary, I have had many dogs and have raised a puppy in the past using a crate. I knew there would be an adjustment period that includes whining. But our new puppy really is pushing us to our limit. Here's his backround:

    He's a 9 week old lab puppy. He had been using a crate with the breeder with no problems. He had a couple of times in the crate yesterday for short periods of time after we got home and took time to settle down, but it was within reason. At bed time (around 11) he whined/yelped/barked for about a half hour and then finally settled down. At 1:30 a.m. he woke up and I took him out to pee and promptly put him back in. There was no fanfare involved, just in and out. Then he cried/yelped/whined again for about 45 minutes. I did make the mistake at one point of opening his crate and trying to settle him down (without letting him out). That didn't work and eventually he just quieted on his own. He then didn't wake up until 6:30 a.m. and overall I considered our first night together as about what I expected and thought it wasn't terrible.

    But today, I put him in his crate around 1:00 p.m. I didn't leave the house (I was exhausted after last night and wanted to try and get some sleep in preparation for tonight). He then proceeded to whine/cry/help for the next hour and a half. At that point I had to leave and needed to let him out to pee, so I waited for  a brief moment when he was quiet and took him out. I feel like he would have kept up the whining forever!

    Then I had to leave again at 4 and put him in his crate. He was going at it when I left, and when I returned a little after 6, I could hear him as soon as I got out of my car in the garage, leading me to believe he was at it the whole time I was gone.

    I have tried putting on music for him, making a loud noise every time he makes a noise. sternly saying no, and obviously just ignoring him. He has been getting long walks, play time, general interaction, has toys in his crate, including a kong and I am sure all his needs are met each time before I put him in. I am concerned at this point that he is getting so worked up in his crate, that eventually he won't like his crate.

    So, basically I need a new plan for tonight. If tonight goes as last night did, I am fine with that. I can live with it for a while. But after today, I am scared he is going to be much much worse tonight. Of course, being tired tonight might make a difference as opposed to earlier today, but I need to be prepared.

     Any ideas? I love our new little puppy and want to have patience, but it is hard when I am sleep deprived.

     

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  • 02-27-2008 8:53 PM In reply to Infiniti

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    Re: New Puppy Whining for hours in Crate -- Please help!

    All of my fosters have done this. They just take a few days to settle in. I would make sure he is good and tired before putting him in. Feed him his meals in the crate - give him his bones and kongs in there. Make it happy place to be. My little foster beagle has learned the command to go in her crate - it's her bed, she loves it. It just takes time.

    Also - don't let him out when he is carrying on like that. Wait for him to be silent, even for a second, then let him out. He'll catch on!



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  • 02-27-2008 8:57 PM In reply to Infiniti

    Re: New Puppy Whining for hours in Crate -- Please help!

     Thanks for the response. I have been trying to make sure he's good and tired before putting him in and I have given him a couple of treats, but maybe I need to mix it up a little. I know it will all pass, it's just that as I am sure you can relate, it's much harder to deal with in the middle of the night. It's deja vu from when my daughter had colic as a newborn!

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  • 02-27-2008 8:59 PM In reply to rwbeagles

    Night # 2 with New Puppy -- Very nervous!

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  • 02-27-2008 9:28 PM In reply to cantrell

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    Re: Night #2 With New Puppy - Need Help!

    Where is the crate at?  Where was it at the breeders?

    With my past dog, crating him as a young 16 week old puppy was awful, he'd just whine and scream all night long for nearly a month.  We didn't know what to do.  But the crate was downstairs away from the rest of the family.  Then he went and broke his leg badly.  His leg was immobilized and he couldn't lie down in the crate, so we set up a bed next to us in the bedroom.  Bliss!!!  Not a peep and the first full night sleep in a month!  Once the cast was off we worked back to crating him short periods during the day or if we had to leave but he was always in the bedroom with us at night.  He learned that the crate was his safety zone from the kids during the day and adjusted well.  Since then, all my dogs sleep in the bedroom with me and I've had no problems at all.  I think they want to be with their pack members so they can smell and hear them and it gives them a sense of security rather than being far away.  And it hasn't interfered with crate training them the rest of the time, they both do fine in them when I leave or when they're eating (they're fed in them) or if Mom just needs a flipping break!  LOL!

    Good luck! 


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  • 02-27-2008 9:29 PM In reply to rwbeagles

    Re: Night # 2 with New Puppy -- Very nervous!

    First, take a deep breath and let it out along with the nervousness. Your puppy can feel that. Let it go.

    It sounds like your first night was very good. It can take a week or so for a puppy to get the idea and settle in. I know it's tempting to yell at him or try to settle him, but you really need to ignore the whining and crying. Even negative attention is attention. Be consistent. Being tired will make a difference.

    I know, being right in the middle of it is terrible (believe me, I know!!!) I raise all 4 of my dogs from puppies. But keep telling yourself, "This, too, shall pass." It's temporary and you'll get through it just fine.

    It sounds like you're doing everything right. Please check back here tomorrow and let us know how it's going. If nothing else, you can vent your frustrations and maybe someone will have some ideas for you. But to me, it sounds perfectly normal...  

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  • 02-27-2008 10:43 PM In reply to rwbeagles

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    Re: Night # 2 with New Puppy -- Very nervous!

    It does sound like you're doing everything you can.  If it makes you feel better, Honor got worse on days #2 and #3.  I think the first day was so overstimulating, that she actually did sleep.  But I remember the second and third nights were H-E-double-hockey-sticks!  Cry, cry, cry.  (And scream, scream, scream...Honor was the queen of raptor-like screeching).  But like FiC said, it is temporary, and as long as you are consistent about ignoring the crying you should be fine. 

    Hang in there!  It will come to an end. Smile 


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  • 02-27-2008 11:04 PM In reply to cantrell

    Re: Night #2 With New Puppy - Need Help!

    Moderator speaking, 

    I understand you want feedback...however it is not okay to post the same issue in multi areas, without clearing it with a Mod or Admin. Please refrain from doing so in future. Sometimes one needs patience to get responses.

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  • 02-28-2008 6:20 PM In reply to rwbeagles

    Re: Night #2 With New Puppy - Need Help!

    Oh its just his first day, give him some time to adjust. Its a bit overwhelming to leave your momma, littermates, ride in a car and go to a new home with new people all in one day. As humans we are pretty comfertable in our world and home but he isnt yet.

    It is GREAT though that you are starting him off with his routine from day one. The biggest mistake I made with my girl as a puppy was allowing her to get away with "puppy stuff" I would not tolerate as a adult.

    Now down to business.........where are the PICS? We need puppy pics, lol!

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  • 02-28-2008 8:00 PM In reply to AuroraLove

    Re: Night #2 With New Puppy - Need Help!

    Start feeding him all of his meals in the crate and hang a water dish in there too - so that he has to go to the crate to eat and drink. Only give him special things - like chews and kongs - inside his crate.

    Get yourself some ear plugs for night time.

    When he's whining and such don't open the door but take a deep sigh and roll over so that he knows you're there but that you aren't getting up. Sometimes just knowing you are there and resting will settle them down. 

    It's all about routine, really. He will learn it eventually. 

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  • 02-28-2008 8:17 PM In reply to AuroraLove

    Re: Night #2 With New Puppy - Need Help!

    I know, believe it or not, we haven't taken any pix yet! We've been so overwhelmed, I've hardly had time to breathe, let alone whip out the camera. I plan on catching up this weekend with lots of photo ops.

     I am happy to say, Chase was wonderful last night. He went to bed around 11:30-12:00, only complained for a little while and then slept until 6:30! Woohoo!

     He whined much less in the crate today, so I am hoping tonight will at least be as good as last night. Thanks for all the support! When I get pix, I will post them.
     

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  • 02-28-2008 8:18 PM In reply to rwbeagles

    Re: Night #2 With New Puppy - Need Help!

    Sorry about over posting btw. I didn't know the rules, as I am pretty new to the site. I will know better next time. I was desperate!  :) 

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  • 02-28-2008 10:06 PM In reply to cantrell

    Re: Night #2 With New Puppy - Need Help!

     Oh! I'm so glad! Looking forward to pix!

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