spiritdogs:I'm curious as to how you found out about the necessity for socialization
Unfortunately, the hard way. I found Gypsy as a six-month stray with shoe string tied around her neck that appeared to have been ripped or torn, as if she had escaped. We took her in, vetted her and cared for her in the hopes of finding her a new home. She was a stunning and smart pup, so I figured finding a home would not be a problem. Keeping her didn't seem like an option as we were living in an no-dogs apartment complex.
Of the two homes we brought her for possible adoption, she tried to bite someone in each. I had never owned dogs, so I didn't recognize that she was "fear agressive" . Ironically Anne, it was at St. Hubert's that you spoke of where we had her evaluated and where we completed their obedience classes. It SAVED her life and ours. I learned that I was so feeding into her fear, and she could not look to me as one who could protect her. I learned the importance of obedience and watching for her signals when she was unsure. I also learned that, as I took the time and energy to socialize her with people, I believe I failed her when it came to socializing her with other dogs. Outside of our hound Murphy, I wouldn't trust her around other strange dogs.
Gypsy is now twelve. Like you said, I see her as being handicapped for life. But....I have become adept at managing her environment when it comes to certain situations. She is remarkable with my nieces and nephews and the extended family. She loves the teenagers in my family, but she distrusts them when we leave our property. The behaviorist really thought that this was probably the population that either abused or tormented her as a pup. When we walk, I say a prompt, "no thanks, but thanks so much for asking" when people ask to pet her. It is her deficit, and maybe mine too. I never wanted a bite history so I always erred on the side of caution. Could she have thrived under someone else's care? I've often wondered.
So, as you gathered, I believe the early socialization for pups is utmost, but when it is not possible, as in Gypsy and in a dog like Hektor, as their guardians we do the best we can, with the knowledge and history that we have. Because for me, I am a better human being because this amazing dog came into my life!
Coleen
Membered on 03/03 and have never looked back...