Pardon if I post a book here, but I want to address some of the issues, questions and comments that appeared while I was sleeping. 
ron2:What does he say it takes to be a pack leader?
I won't speak for him and I can't possibly answer that in a post or two or three. I've been watching his show for 3 years and am reading 2 of his books and I'm still learning from him. If you want to know (and I'm not being contentious, either), his latest book is called "Be the Pack Leader". But if it was as simple as "Grabbing your dog by the neck makes you a pack leader", I doubt he'd be as successful as he is.
I already said... "Of course, grabbing the neck doesn't make anyone a leader. It's just a
tool. Holding a saw doesn't make someone a carpenter, either. But a saw
is just one tool that a carpenter can use."
People aren't getting the difference between "Doing this makes you a pack leader" and "This is something a pack leader might do."
I'm sorry if people don't understand that. That's as simple as I can say it (to borrow a phrase). 
ron2:people aren't going to know how you want them to be a pack leader unless you give some guidelines.
I don't want them to be a pack leader. I have no interest at all in people being the leader of their pack. I'm not a missionary, I have nothing to "sell" and I'm not "spreading the word" of Cesar. I'm not trying to convince anyone to "believe" in Cesar. I'm explaining why I do what I do and how it works for me.
ron2:a certain tactic will make you a pack leader
About as much as clicking a clicker makes you a dog trainer. 
ron2:
Can we coin the phrase "debate exhaustion" or something like that?
Very good! I can use it in a sentence: When I approach debate exhaustion, I get more and more sarcastic, joke more and I seem like I don't give a poo. LOL
espencer:
Ah this thread reminds me where i was one year ago, explaining exactly
the same concepts to exactly the same people and i dont think i need to
tell you if they got it or not
Why didn't you just PM me and tell me not to waste my time? LOL
Seriously,
it's ok with me if people don't agree. I have learned a lot here and I
have had the opportunity to say what I really wanted to say and I feel
that, for the most part, I've been heard. And I really want to thank
the people who don't like Cesar for at least listening. I don't expect
anyone to agree and I don't expect anyone who dislikes him to start liking him based on what I say, but I really appreciate you listening and reading my point of view.
Thank you.
corvus:a bunch of crazy words and airy fairy ideas. Naturally, I switched off
And that's just when I switched on. LOL It's simply that some people are more attracted to the "airy-fairy", spiritual, non-physical side of things. Some people are more attracted
to the concrete, step-by-step, clinical, scientific side. And my belief
is that the MORE I open up to it ALL and not limit myself to one OR the
other, the more well-rounded, complete picture I can make. And that's
what I get from Cesar. The big picture.
corvus:The reason why the right 'energy' works is because
once you commit to a particular emotional approach, your body
communicates that to your animals and they know your intentions.
Beautifully said! And absolutely true! But, you know what? Millions of people don't instinctively know that. They have to be told and taught. Something about their mental patterns since childhood or before don't allow them to simply realize that and accept it with the ease that you do. Just as you may have to be taught other concepts about life that they automatically "just know".
Chuffy:Er yeah. That's what I have been trying to
say. I apologise that I am not so elooquent as houndlove!!
It's
not that you're not eloquent. corvus and ron et al have been saying the
same thing, too. It just didn't click into place with me until now.
Sometimes it takes a little more time and trouble to communicate
(especially given our limited means) and it's not about you or how
eloquent anyone is. It's just that I just "got" what you guys are
saying.
I still don't think of it in those terms. I still think
the way I think. Cesar is more than a trainer to me. In my context, a trainer
is a person who teaches
dogs TO DO things. Cesar teaches
people how to have a balanced pack (and the dogs follow). I haven't changed my mind about that, but at least I
understand what you guys are saying. I'm a bit disappointed that I've apparently completely failed to get my points across as eloquently.
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