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My baby girl passed away

Last post 07-28-2007 11:00 AM by dvet. 5 replies.
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  • 07-28-2007 4:45 AM

    My baby girl passed away

    Hi im Jesse and im new to this forum a my baby girl Spirit passed away July 26 after 9 years of life.  Im having trouble sleeping i constantly think about her and i almost feel guilty. I wnet to bed with Spirit after a drunk night of drinking games, when i woke up in the morning she was passed away beside me, i scratched her belly like i do every morning except she didnt lick my hand right away i knew something was wrong i looked at gher and she would move, i panicked and tryed CPR, but my question is could this be my fault could i have rolled on to her, she looked normal as pretty as she always does except there was pee and poop on my bed and poop still in her butt. please respond negative or positive
    thanks alot Jesse
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  • 07-28-2007 10:44 AM In reply to SpiritRIP

    • sairey
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    RE: My baby girl passed away

    Jesse- I wouldn't feel guilty; First of all, it won't help either you or Spirit, and secondly in my experience dogs who are dying eliminate like that. When I was young & drank, I think I pretty much just passed out and didn't move much in my sleep. I don't think it was your fault, Jesse. How old was Spirit?
    Joyce
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  • 07-28-2007 10:45 AM In reply to SpiritRIP

    • dvet
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    RE: My baby girl passed away

    a little philosophy on a lost pet
     





    \\Room In Your Heart
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    Sorrow fills a barren space
    you close your eyes and see my face
    and think of times I made you laugh
    the love we shared, the bond we had,
    the special way I needed you -
    the friendship shared by just we two.
    The day's too quiet, the world seems older,
    the wind blows now a little colder.
    You gaze into the empty air
    and look for me, but I'm not there -
    I'm in heaven and I watch you,
    and I see the world around you too.
    I see little souls wearing fur,
    souls who bark and souls who purr
    born unwanted and unloved -
    I see all this and more above -
    I watch them suffer, I see them cry,
    I see them lost, I watch them die.
    I see unwanted thousands born -
    and when they die, nobody mourns.
    These little souls wearing fur
    (Some who bark and some who purr)
    are castaways who - unlike me -
    will never know love or security.
    A few short months they starve and roam,
    Or caged in shelters - nobody takes home.
    They're special too (furballs of pleasure),
    filled with love and each one, a treasure.
    My pain and suffering came to an end,
    so don't cry for me, my person, my friend.
    But think of the living - those souls with fur
    (some who bark and some who purr) -
    And though our bond can't be broken apart,
    make room for another in your home and your heart.
    - Caro Schubert-James
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  • 07-28-2007 11:00 AM In reply to SpiritRIP

    • dvet
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    RE: My baby girl passed away

    I know this is redundant and may be silly but I  used to give this to clients and it seemed to make them feelk a touvh better...
     
    Its me, I stood by your bed
     
     
    IT'S ME"
    Last Night
    I stood by your bed last night; I came to have a peek.
    I could see that you were crying; you found it hard to sleep.
    I whined to you softly as you brushed away a tear,
    " It's me. I haven't left you. I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here."
    I was close to you at breakfast; I watched you pour the tea,
    You were thinking of the many times your hand reached down to me,.
    I was with you at the shops today; your arms were getting sore.
    I longed to take your parcels; I wished I could do more.
    I was with you at my grave today; you tend it with such care.
    I want to reassure you that I'm not lying there.
    I walked with you towards the house, as you fumbled for your key.
    I gently put my paw on you; I smiled and said "It's me."
    You looked so very tired and sank into a chair.
    I tried so hard to let you know that I was standing there.
    It's possible for me to be so near you everyday.
    To say to you with certainty, "I never went away."
    You sat there very quietly then smiled. I think you knew.....
    in the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you
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  • 07-28-2007 11:16 AM In reply to SpiritRIP

    • Stacita
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    RE: My baby girl passed away

    Sincere condolences on the loss of Spirit.
     
    I think her death was of natural causes.
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  • 07-28-2007 6:31 PM In reply to SpiritRIP

    RE: My baby girl passed away

    I agree with Stacita that her death was probably from natural causes.  This book may help you:
     
    Sife, Wallace
    , The Loss of a Pet, 3rd edition, 11/2005
    http://tinyurl.com/yt34zt
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