my 2 cents -- I was named a really "old timey" name -- but it honestly doesn't matter. What DOES matter is that we're naming a whole generation of kids who are never gonna have their names spelled right no matter what.
As a young person, my name devastated me. It wasn't "bad" -- is was just *enough* different that no one remembered it, no one said it right (they STILL don't) and that all combined to make ME feel unmemorable, and "difficult".
When I went out on my own I chose MY OWN nickname. Some of you know but I only go by "Callie" online -- I answer to it in real life (don't I Megan??) but I absolutely hate, loathe and despise my "real" name because it is ... un-memorable. The only ones who ever spell it right are the IRS.
Go back to your roots -- it doesn't matter WHAT, but look at a list of names in an original language? Pick it by what it means? (and if it were me I'd be waiting thru the pregnancy to see if she developes a personality)
Just name her for HER. Not just to be 'different'. Not what YOU like but maybe what you'd like her to be. A character quality. Something precious.
Kids are cruel -- someone is gonna tease her about her name. Good thinking on the initials. When he was 30 and initialing documents he would simply have wanted to shoot you!!
MY name was the source of an intense family argument. That's MY legacy. (and I hate it anyway)
I so wish that they had named me XYZ because it meant "precious" or "longed for" or "sunshine".
I hear kids get SO defensive about spelling their name -- it's obvious it's always a bone of contention for them.
I'm not anti any names. I just remember the trauma SO deeply.