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Mindless Chatter, is it Tuesday yet??

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  • 04-27-2009 7:29 AM

    • glenmar
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    Mindless Chatter, is it Tuesday yet??

    Just one more day to get through!  There is not a lot for me to do today, but I'm sure I'll feel like there is later.  First things first, I want to defrost the fridge today.  It's one of the old fashioned kinds that is manual defrost and rather a pain.  The freezer doesn't get bad, but the "fins" in the fridge part cake up with frost pretty quickly.  Will be nice to start with it defrosted and organized.  Doesn't take long in this house for my organizational efforts to end up in the crapper!  And I'm sure that it will be worse once DS is living in here as well, but, at least we know tht there is plenty of room inside the station to put stuff as a storage, so that will help.  And living in a real house is just around the corner.

    Yesterday was really tough and very emotional.  We took my Mom out for dinner and took a nice drive along the Bay despite the clouds and rain.  But, it was a rather wet farewell and although I hadn't intended to go back, I will first thing in the morning for another quick hug and kiss. Our leaving is really hard for her, and that makes it hard for me as well.

    Then my sister took offense at my email, sharing some of the things that I do special with my Mom....kind of hoping that she would step in with an occassional "just us girls" picnic or silly, meandering drive.  Mother LOVES to go exploring and every now and then we turn on a road we don't know and just sort of wander.  That's not my typical behavior, but she loves it and it tickles me to see such a little thing please her.  I was more mussing than anything else, but she thought, I guess, that I didn't trust her to look out for Mom's best interest.  My gosh, my sister has been the only one of us who has BEEN here for Mom, in the state, for the past 30 plus years since my Dad died.  I absolutely don't doubt her devotion, maybe just her sense of fun and adventure!

    AND I had to tell the roomie that we are leaving.  Mind you, I've been TRYING since Thursday, but she's not been around to tell.  She cried.  Good gosh, I'm going to get to FL on a flood of tears!

    So, guess it's time to hunker down and do the last minute stuff.  DS of course left getting his tires until TODAY, and I need to run up and get an oil change.  Think that I'll send DH to do that so I can do some of the little stuff that the guys don't ever seem to notice needs doing.  This evening we need to get the freezer loaded on DS's truck.  It is a big job, but I've moved the darned thing so many times in the past year that I'm becoming a pro at it!

    Off to clean the fridge.......

     

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    Glenda



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  • 04-27-2009 9:25 AM In reply to glenmar

    • JackieG
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    Re: Mindless Chatter, is it Tuesday yet??

    One more day to get through Glenda and then you'll be singing Willie's song. :)  I got a little tear reading about the drives you took your Mom on, my FIL loved to do the same thing and we would just drive around for hours on back roads.  He couldn't talk or walk because of a stroke but his face told us how much he enjoyed those drives. 

    I have an eye doctor appointment this afternoon to check for retinal tears.  I'm sort of nervous because I think I may have a tear in my left eye.  I had written my doctor a letter and telling him I wouldn't return because of his policy of triple booking appointments.  Last time I waited four hours before he saw me and then I didn't feel like a got a thoruough exam.  His office manager kept calling me and I finally talked to her last week.  Long story short, she told me some things that convinced me that it's not about money, so I'm going back to him.  He's one of only nine retinal specialists here and has pioneered some of the laser surgery done on eyes.  I feel in good hands.

    Ruger, the Weim who comes to work with my coworker, has been going nuts since they got some baby chicks at home.  Poor Ruger, he's just dying to meet the little critters. lol 




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  • 04-27-2009 9:31 AM In reply to JackieG

    Re: Mindless Chatter, is it Tuesday yet??

    Jackie, maybe you should say Ruger is dying to eat the little chicks...LOL

    Glenda, I hope you have a safe trip.  I'll wave when you go by!

    It's a typical Monday, I wish I was home.  My desk is stacked with work, so I really should be doing that instead.

    I see I guess right on Lani's grandpuppies - I said 7 and that's what she has!  Do I win one?  LOL

    I think I need some chocolate...

    Tina
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  • 04-27-2009 9:48 AM In reply to sharismom

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    Re: Mindless Chatter, is it Tuesday yet??

     well - the plumbers are here and of course need to drill through walls in places no one foresaw so lots of last minute closet clearing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    The house is line with drop clothes and plastic sheets are covering everything.  The guys made me laugh because they said I could leave B loose ha ha ha ha - just the thought of him inspecting all the drop clothes and his tail ripping down all the plastic sheets makes me giggle.

    Other than that just another hot day and I will be here with B - who is "a donkey on the edge"

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  • 04-27-2009 9:48 AM In reply to sharismom

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    Glenda, I hope that this day flies by for you!

    Jackie, We've got fingers & paws crossed for no retinal tear!

    Tina, I think that you definitely deserve one of Lani's grandpups. 

    I was up most of the night last night with a puking kid.  I'm a little tired, & could use a nap.  I'm going to work from home today.  Maybe I can sneak in a nap.

    Amanda

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  • 04-27-2009 12:22 PM In reply to BEVOLASVEGAS

    • glenmar
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    Re: Mindless Chatter, is it Tuesday yet??

    Wow, it has flown so far.  I've got all my outside stuff done except for loading the freezer and that has to wait until DS gets home from getting his tires and oil change.  Sure hope the storm that is threatening either gets it over with FAST or goes away entirely.

    I need to put a few things in the bedroom and then the bathroom travel ready, then will tackle the dreaded KITCHEN!!  I think that we'll do a pretty early dinner tonight so I can get everything put up as early as possible.

    Been up since a bit after 6 and they day is disappearing on me!

    A house without fur is not a home.
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  • 04-27-2009 12:48 PM In reply to glenmar

    Re: Mindless Chatter, is it Tuesday yet??

    My arm hurts from playing fetch all day yesterday. Not to mention I have damaged nerves in that arm, but since going to the chiropractor it has been feeling better. Hopefully with time my nerves will heal on their own.

    It's cooler out today than it was yesterday, less sun, more wind. Definatly a jeans and sweatshirt day. I still have plenty of laundry to be hung out and taken care of....Honestly we have too many clothes, but I make use of them all. I can't tell you how many bags of clothes I have donated recently.

    We officially have a new home! Well, not new but it was free. We have to be out of this house by June 30th. It's sad really because this is my BF's grandparents home. We moved in after his grandmother fell and broke her hip. We hoped she would be coming home and we could take care of her, but that never happend. She passed away a year ago in June. Now BF's boss owns the house and land and we are being evicted in June so that he can use the land for the business. Which I understand, but I am so sad to see this land turn into a dirt pit..

    One of BF's past employers has a trailer that he just wants to get off of his land. He was going to take it to the dump but would have to pay to do so. He offered BF the trailer for free as long as he pays to move it. We were going to live in a camper, but that would be difficult in the winter (Glenda, don't know how you did it!). So now we have a trailer, it's a three bedroom and even has a whirlpool tub in the bathroom! We've been slowly moving things to the new lot (his dads house is literaly right there). Thankfully we're staying in the same town though.

    I'm excited but sad to leave this place as well.

    Lily will be meeting her new friend Abbie on Thursday! Our friends that put their dog down a few months ago are getting their new puppy Thursday she will be a chocolate lab. My friend has always wanted a chocolate. Although they recently put their dog Maggie down, they can't stand the quiet and miss the companionship. I'm glad they did their research and have found an excellent breeder.

    We're going to make up a welcome basket full of toys and treats for Abbie when we go to meet her. Lily has never been around a puppy before, so it will be interesting to see how she does. We learned last weekend that she is awesome around children, no jumping, just tons of kisses and maybe a few licks from their ice cream! I am so proud of her!

    ~Kristi

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  • 04-27-2009 1:31 PM In reply to glenmar

    Re: Mindless Chatter, is it Tuesday yet??

    I'm hiding in my cube this after noon. I went to the gym at lunch but forgot a shirt to workout in. Well, I didn't want to skip the work out because there are only so many days I can go (due to travel). So I worked out in the tshirt I wore to work today. Now I'm kind of sweaty and gross. Good thing I scheduled "busy" on my calendar so no one could add mtgs today!

    Anyone know anybody in mid mi that would like to watch 3 aussies for a few days every now and again?

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  • 04-27-2009 1:35 PM In reply to lilys_mum07

    • sl2crmeg
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    Re: Mindless Chatter, is it Tuesday yet??

    I just noticed you are from Maine, Kristi! My godparents have a place up in Moosehead Lake - they bought the land 30 years ago and built a 8' x 12' cabin - my dad, before he met my mom, helped build it! They recently retired and built a bigger log cabin, with indoor plumbing. I'm road-tripping it up there with my sister this summer!

    My little bro might be buying an old beater Volvo - I'm so jealous.

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  • 04-27-2009 2:16 PM In reply to Jewlieee

    Re: Mindless Chatter, is it Tuesday yet??

     Been crazy busy lately. adjusting to life with a donkey. which isn't bad so far. Just learning to be firm with a 600lb animal. LOL. things are going well, Daisy is learning that putting her mouth on people is a NO NO. she gets really grumpy when I wont let her do it. I wish i could get it on video! Its amazing how sensitive they are!

    Got a bunch of free plants that were being taken to the dump from a nursery, so I have tons of tomatoes, found some cucumbers, basil, and some squash. got them all in the ground yesterday.  Woo hoo!! very excited about fresh veggies.

    the BF 'relapsed' again. ugh.  he spent most of his saturday night drinking & smoking ( which he supposidly *quit* - both of them for that matter), I didn't really know what was going on, I was giving the 'guys' their time so I just hung out in the living room with my friend. later when my BF would NOT stop snoring ( something that he does if he drinks), i asked him if he had been drinking, he said 'yes'.  UGH!!!!!  I then had to go sleep on the floor in my sewing room - I could not fall asleep due to the snoring & the anger/frustration disappointment I was feeling. 

    So i'm dealing with the whole 'detachment' again,  I have to just face it, I can't control anything he does, I feel like I can't trust him as much because he's saying one thing then doing another.  It bums me out because prior to that things were going well. now I feel like everytime stuff is going great somethin *bad* is going to happen......

     I have to remember to just focus on myself & the things I can control.  I'm happy I'm staying on track with the workouts, roller bladed with Akyra, then did strength training. yay.  

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  • 04-27-2009 2:17 PM In reply to sl2crmeg

    Re: Mindless Chatter, is it Tuesday yet??

     I cracked my head really hard on a thick slab of teak yesterday...I thought I'd concussed myself for a while there, and though I haven't, I have a HUGE bump on the back of my head and an awful headache.  I swear I saw little tweety birds when it happened.

     

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  • 04-27-2009 2:20 PM In reply to Benedict

    Re: Mindless Chatter, is it Tuesday yet??

    Benedict:

     I cracked my head really hard on a thick slab of teak yesterday...I thought I'd concussed myself for a while there, and though I haven't, I have a HUGE bump on the back of my head and an awful headache.  I swear I saw little tweety birds when it happened.

     

     

     

    OUCH!!

    hehe, I've felt what it's like to be 'knocked stupid' from black belt training. 

    I hope your headache goes away!

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  • 04-27-2009 2:27 PM In reply to akyramoto82

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    Akyramoto: your b/f's lying is due to his addiction.  Sounds like you are doing Al-Anon or something similar - good for you.  We all have those days where we know we should detach, yet we stumble.  He stumbles, too, and feels guilty about it.  The addiction is a horrible beast.   

    Kate, sorry to hear about your headache.  When I skimmed over your post at first, I thought it said you hit your head on a slab of steak...LOL

    Tina
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  • 04-27-2009 2:30 PM In reply to sharismom

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    sharismom:

    Akyramoto: your b/f's lying is due to his addiction.  Sounds like you are doing Al-Anon or something similar - good for you.  We all have those days where we know we should detach, yet we stumble.  He stumbles, too, and feels guilty about it.  The addiction is a horrible beast.   

    Kate, sorry to hear about your headache.  When I skimmed over your post at first, I thought it said you hit your head on a slab of steak...LOL

     

     

    well actually I've been in counseling for the last 3-4 years. but I never thought I'd be continuing to go to talk about my BF's addiction.

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  • 04-27-2009 2:47 PM In reply to sl2crmeg

    Re: Mindless Chatter, is it Tuesday yet??

    sl2crmeg:
    I just noticed you are from Maine, Kristi! My godparents have a place up in Moosehead Lake - they bought the land 30 years ago and built a 8' x 12' cabin - my dad, before he met my mom, helped build it! They recently retired and built a bigger log cabin, with indoor plumbing. I'm road-tripping it up there with my sister this summer!
     

    Moosehead is about an hour & 1/2 from us. I worked at Beaver Cove Marina one summer and lived in an apartment in Monson while working there. It was the best summer of my life! We're actually heading past Moosehead to the Allagash for Memorial weekend. It's becoming a yearly thing. Camping for 4 days, moose watching and fishing. Nothing better! Let me know when you do come up, we should get together!

    Monsters are real, ghosts are real too. They live inside us & sometimes they win. ~ Stephen King




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