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First time adopting a dog. Pointers?

Last post 03-22-2009 3:10 PM by DistinctlyBenign. 8 replies.
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  • 03-21-2009 1:05 AM

    First time adopting a dog. Pointers?

     Sadly, my Chihuahua Zel passed away on Tuesday. I'm in the market for a new dog, something bigger, and I'm headed out to the humane society tomorrow to see what I can find.

     Thing is... I've never had to pick out my own dog to adopt before. My first dog, Chopsy was a pup from a litter my parents owned the mother of, and Zel we took in for a friend. I've had plenty of other dogs in my house but those wern't my dogs and I had no hand in picking them out.

    So tomorrows little trip will be my first adventure in choosing a dog on my own, and I was wonding if theres anything I should know about adopting?

     I'm sure I won't be getting a purebreed (and thats fine) but I'd like something with Boxer in it if possible, maybe mixed with a Blue Heeler or a Border Collie.

    Preferably I'd like a fairly young dog. I'm sure everyone adopting says that, but I live on a semi-farm and want to be able to raise this dog to being used to Chickens and Ducks being around, and make sure it won't be mean to my two year old niece. Also we already own a Lab, and my parents say that if we bring home another adult dog they are likely to take to fighting.

     



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  • 03-21-2009 1:09 AM In reply to DistinctlyBenign

    Re: First time adopting a dog. Pointers?

     Go to petfinder.com and you could narrow your search down to almost anything. It will let you pick your state, age of dogs your looking for,sex,breeds/mixes, etc.

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  • 03-21-2009 1:18 AM In reply to kle1986

    Re: First time adopting a dog. Pointers?

     I already was on Petfinder actually, I want to actively go to the humane society to see what they have.

     I meant pointers as in what to look for in the dog itself, how I can tell if a dog isn't going to be very friendly, that sort of thing.



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  • 03-21-2009 2:14 AM In reply to DistinctlyBenign

    Re: First time adopting a dog. Pointers?

    Well, being totally inexpierenced in this area and coming from that perspective I would say don't expect too much. Some dogs may love you right off the bat but a shelter is total sensory overload, being confined can make an normally reasonable dog nuts after a while and you are a new person. Maybe give the dog some excersize and just keep in mind that that first meeting, in my mind won't really say very much. Sort of like meeting a new person the first time, it'll take a while to really start building a relationship and getting to know one another. Maybe the best thing to do would be do a 'test run' with a dog just overnight or the weekend, or even several dogs.

    I would look for things like if the dog will take food from me, if the dog will make eye contact however brief when I attempt to get it's attention, if the dog would play in some fashion, even naughty play like mouthing, but that's what I would look for.

    Sorry about your previous dog and best wishes with the new one.

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  • 03-21-2009 8:54 AM In reply to DistinctlyBenign

    Re: First time adopting a dog. Pointers?

    My tips would be....

    • don't choose a dog soley on looks. choose a dog that will mesh well with your dogs and lifestyle.
    • give the new dog a long time to get adapted to your home. it took Apollo about 6-8 months to get totally used to our house, schedule, etc.
    • talk openly to the shelter staff about what you're looking for because they know the dogs best.
    • bring the dog to a vet asap to check for worms, parasites, etc. you don't want your existing dogs to catch anything you can prevent. 

    DistinctlyBenign:
    Also we already own a Lab, and my parents say that if we bring home another adult dog they are likely to take to fighting.

    I don't know about this unless, is your lab already not friendly? Or still not neutered? 2 same sex dogs close in age and size, especially 2 unaltered males are more likely to fight.

     

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  • 03-21-2009 11:13 AM In reply to BlackLabbie

    Re: First time adopting a dog. Pointers?

     

    BlackLabbie:
    I don't know about this unless, is your lab already not friendly? Or still not neutered? 2 same sex dogs close in age and size, especially 2 unaltered males are more likely to fight.

     Naw, Shadow is docile and neutered. Shadow is so very docile that he lets my two year old niece climb all over him and he won't even move. I don't really know why they think that, basically they don't trust the temperament of dogs from shelters I guess? I don't know.

     But I'd really like to be able to get a puppy still. The fact that we keep chickens is something that a lot of dogs probably won't be used to, and I'd like the pup to be raised to know to not chase them.

    Thanks for the advise all. I should be headed over to the shelter in the next few hours to hopefully pick out my dog.



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  • 03-21-2009 3:27 PM In reply to DistinctlyBenign

    Re: First time adopting a dog. Pointers?

    You may already have left but I'd tell you a few things:

    1.  Much of the dogs you mentioned ARE herders (heelers, b. collies) and, as such, are going to be DRAWN more to 'herding' the ducks, chicks, etc. and which CAN cross the line into harassment really fast.

    2.  The most emphatic thing I'd tell you is do NOT go looking for a dog to bring home **today**.  That's pressure on YOU to make a decision "gotta find one TODAY" -- and that will lead you to an unwise decision. 

    3.  don't blame you for wanting a pup *however* I don't know you so I don't know your situation -- but is someone really home ALL the time to really train/supervise a pup?  If you are wanting a dog to bond ***to YOU*** then if you leave Mom or a family member to have to do heavy duty 'training' like housetraining, then you actually diminish your own role.  Does that make sense?

    4.  A thot for you:  PA ranges from farm to big-time urban -- so I don't know what there is in terms of rescue out there.   But sometimes rescues where the dogs have been *fostered* can be a huge help to YOU in finding a dog who may be less dominant, more tolerate of things like children and livestock and other pets. 

    **MY** mindset when looking for a dog is always to find the one who needs ME.  That helps me walk away from a cute bundle of fur that ... well maybe I LIKE it (and sheesh, I like ALL dogs) but is it really right for us? 

    When I was a teenager (in my last year of high school in fact) we adopted a puppy who was MINE in every sense of the word .. but by the time I went to college (and I came home a few weekends, Holidays, summer) but even in the 2 years I was away the dog truly became my PARENTS dog. 

    When I graduated and got my own place ... Pip was broken hearted that I didn't stay THERE.  He tried to come and live with me but really truly missed my folks SO much that I wound up leaving him there.  He wanted us to be **together**. 

    The hard part about getting a dog in your teens is exactly that.  As you mature the dog tends to bond with *everyone* so if going away to college is in your  thots then you may want a dog older to begin with that  will be content to look to you for training, etc.

    Does that make any sense at all?  I'm not trying to discourage you at all -- only to set yourself up as primary caretaker of THIS dog if you want it to bond to you?

    As far as specifics -- not only would I look at the dog who looks into YOUR eyes (I like to feel a real connection ... you can guess I'm not a 'puppy person' and I like to feel that "hmm, this dog needs ME!") 

    I'd watch the interaction of the dog with it's surroundings -- likely you'll want a dog that's not dominant.  Reserved maybe, fearful no - not if you have as 'busy' a home as it sounds like (lots of animals, maybe several humans, other pets in the house). 

    Now I'd take on the fearful one ... but that's likely not going to be good in your situation.  If you can find a dog that has been given up because people lost their home, or couldn't afford to keep the dog ... but they HAD kids ... and heaven knows there are TONS of dogs out there now displaced by the economy.  That would help you, I think


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  • 03-21-2009 4:09 PM In reply to DistinctlyBenign

    Re: First time adopting a dog. Pointers?

     My big advice since you already have a resident dog would be to schedual a meeting for your dog and the potential adoptee in a neutral area before settling on one, especially if you do end up going with a dog that is no longer a little puppy.

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  • 03-22-2009 3:10 PM In reply to Krissim Klaw

    Re: First time adopting a dog. Pointers?

     Well, we went to a few shelters, didn't end up seeing a dog we liked. We are now scouring papers and calling breeders to try and find the dog for us.

    Thanks for the tips, all. I'll be sure to keep everything you guys said when I do find a dog I want to adopt.



    RIP Zel - 3/17/09
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