In Memory- member babsT/Ovcharkagirl

• 04-26-2008 3:11 PM

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  brookcove Joined on 09-10-2007 Semora, North Carolina, USA Posts 3,647 Points 335

  Re: In Memory- member babsT/Ovcharkagirl Reply Contact I never have time for this part of the forum - I'm glad I happened to be here.  This is so tragic - and horrifying.  We had many conversations about those wonderful dogs, the Ovcharka, she had such a love for the loyal, gentle, giant dog breeds that we shared. Prayers for peace and comfort for this family, order in the chaos, and meaning and direction from the senseless.  Becca Shouse Maggie and Zhi (queen bees), Ben, Gus, Cord, Rocky, Ted (BCs), Lu and Tully (Maremma flock guardians) Irena Farm, Semora, NC

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• 04-26-2008 6:37 PM

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  ottoluv Joined on 11-27-2006 So Cal Posts 2,769 Points 520	Re: In Memory- member babsT/Ovcharkagirl Reply Contact   what a horrible tragedy Here I am stuck in the middle with you I practice societal sanctioned assault
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• 04-26-2008 7:19 PM

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  calliecritturs Joined on 09-10-2007 Central Florida Posts 6,581 Points 1,550

  Re: In Memory- member babsT/Ovcharkagirl Reply Contact rwbeagles: never forget to look out for the people you love and check on them...and listen if they need to talk or seem unhappy. You never know...  Folks, please take Gina's caution to heart -- we never know when that kind word ... that extra few minutes to listen or reach out ... can make a difference to someone.  Yeah, sometimes it gets us "involved" in something ... but sometimes it can really help.  I wish we were never touched by such things, but it IS part of the human condition.  Sometimes tragedy can't be averted.  Sometimes it can.  But gosh, Gina, thank you for letting us know that the dogs are being taken care of and that the kids are with family.

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• 04-26-2008 7:36 PM

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  Okami Joined on 03-09-2008 Posts 96 Points 0	Re: In Memory- member babsT/Ovcharkagirl Reply Contact Thats so awful.. I never knew her but from lurking this forum and chazhound for awhile, I have seen her posts, and her dogs. I send some good vibes for her family and friends. ***These aren't my dogs!*** If my picture is too big please tell me. :)
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• 04-28-2008 12:52 PM

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  rwbeagles Joined on 09-10-2007 DFW, TX Posts 13,876 Points 2,020	Re: In Memory- member babsT/Ovcharkagirl Reply Contact Thank you Sue. I do have a link to a donation collection, if anyone wants to do so...please PM me. Gina H. dog.community Moderator "Do the day, and let the day...do you!"-Wireman "Duma Key"
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• 04-29-2008 12:21 PM

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  rwbeagles Joined on 09-10-2007 DFW, TX Posts 13,876 Points 2,020	Re: In Memory- member babsT/Ovcharkagirl Reply Contact Barbara was laid to rest yesterday. ARTICLE The shelter she volunteered with: QUINCY ANIMAL SHELTER Gina H. dog.community Moderator "Do the day, and let the day...do you!"-Wireman "Duma Key"
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• 04-30-2008 7:59 AM

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  shamrockmommy Joined on 09-10-2007 Innerspace Posts 639 Points 0	Re: In Memory- member babsT/Ovcharkagirl Reply Contact This is so sad!  I can't believe  he pled not guilty! Shamrockmommy Furmom to Gobie the minpin terror, Lexi and Darby the bichon girls
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• 04-30-2008 2:03 PM

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  erica1989 Joined on 02-21-2007 Clearwater, Florida Posts 2,330 Points 190	Re: In Memory- member babsT/Ovcharkagirl Reply Contact Oh my, how horribly awful. I remember seeing her dogs pictures before - such beautiful creatures they are. I hope this all gets straightened out, and her 'husband' gets what he deserves. I just cannot believe some people sometimes..... RIP Barbara
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• 04-30-2008 2:43 PM

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  g33 Joined on 12-12-2006 Posts 1,542 Points 50

  Re: In Memory- member babsT/Ovcharkagirl Reply Contact I followed a few links from that article and saw some pictures of her.  She was so beautiful.  I cried reading that part of the article where the minister said to her children, "You will never be alone.  Mom is only a whisper away."  She shouldn't be AWAY AT ALL.  Dammit. ~ Gina W. ~ Mom to Shannon (human baby) and Cole (doggy baby), 7 year old Black Lab

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• 05-01-2008 10:49 PM

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  spiritdogs Joined on 09-10-2007 Posts 9,715 Points 710

  Re: In Memory- member babsT/Ovcharkagirl Reply Contact rwbeagles: Barbara was laid to rest yesterday. ARTICLE The shelter she volunteered with: QUINCY ANIMAL SHELTER   You know, it's really weird to see this.  I remember sitting at lunch with Jean Ellard, the Canine Mgr. at Quincy, a few years ago at the N.E. Fed conference.  We have a mutual friend who introduced us.  I'm amazed to think that I know someone, even remotely, who probably knew this woman, yet probably had no idea of the danger she was in, any more than we all did.  So sad for those kids. You get what you reinforce, not what you want. ~ Bob Bailey Disclaimer: The dog.com forum posting rules require that members post a disclaimer when linking to training or behavior sites. As a professional trainer, any advice or links I offer are based on my years of experience with my own dogs, rescued/shelter dogs, and my clients’ dogs, but still may not fit your individual situation with your dog(s). I advise that you seek competent professional advice before trying any training or behavior modification techniques on your own dog(s).

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• 05-10-2008 9:16 AM

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  trouwe_hond Joined on 05-01-2008 Posts 2 Points 5

  Re: In Memory- member babsT/Ovcharkagirl Reply Contact She was a very good person indeed.   I knew her very well.  She trained with us many times and at one point was looking to get into a malinois to work.   It has taken me a long period of time before I could even accept what happened here.   I also knew John pretty well, in fact we used to go shooting at the club together.  Believe me, no one saw this coming except maybe Barbara but she never let on that there were any problems at home accept maybe he was somewhat possesive.  I really miss her.  Apparently he thought she maybe cheating on him but I know for a fact that all she cared about were her 2 boys, and 3 dogs.   John to me seemed to be a very nice guy, smart, seemed to have his act together.  He was actually a gun safety instructor.    I got emails from her a few times a week with pictures and videos of her children and her dogs.   I was at the cemetary yesterday.  I actually brought over a little chihuahua I had in for some training.   Barbara would have enjoyed this little dog.  It was very sad and I spent quite some time there in thought weeping.   That guy is a real ass hole for doing that.  He ruined the lives of those kids.  The breeder currently has her central asian, and ovcharka but I guess they saw the whole thing.   She did a nice job with those big animals.  Her female did the CGC last year and it was interesting but she did a good job with it.   This is really awfull.   This world is a crazy place at times.   Sincerly, - Dave

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• 05-10-2008 5:29 PM

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  rwbeagles Joined on 09-10-2007 DFW, TX Posts 13,876 Points 2,020	Re: In Memory- member babsT/Ovcharkagirl Reply Contact Thank you so much, Dave, for taking the time to share this with us. It is truly appreciated, by all here. Gina H. dog.community Moderator "Do the day, and let the day...do you!"-Wireman "Duma Key"
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• 05-12-2008 9:37 AM

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  MissMandy Joined on 08-14-2006 Chesapeake, Virginia Posts 1,790 Points 0	Re: In Memory- member babsT/Ovcharkagirl Reply Contact Just seeing this. Horrible, just horrible. My heart truly goes out to her children and dogs. What a terribly tragic occurence. Their family will certainly be in my prayers. ~Dog is my co-pilot.~
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• 05-23-2008 4:07 AM

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  ketchup Joined on 02-22-2008 Philippines Posts 60 Points 5	Re: In Memory- member babsT/Ovcharkagirl Reply Contact Oh my what a horrible tragedy, My prayers are with her children and those who love her.  "Striving to produce healthy, sound & quality pomeranians please visit Mr. Chico Pomeranians at http://www.chicopoms.multiply.com" Please help to stop puppy mills, spay & nueter your pets
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• 06-06-2008 10:53 AM

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  rwbeagles Joined on 09-10-2007 DFW, TX Posts 13,876 Points 2,020	Re: In Memory- member babsT/Ovcharkagirl Reply Contact Just an update....the wheels of justice grind slooowwwly. ARTICLE Gina H. dog.community Moderator "Do the day, and let the day...do you!"-Wireman "Duma Key"
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