Sera_J:I hope you take my questions as intended, not as an attack. They are asked sincerely. You seem like an open minded individual, so, I'm hoping you see that I'm asking honestly.
I am very happy to consider other viewpoints such as yours, provided they give me the same benefit of open-mindedness. I am happy that everyone here, even if they don't understand, are willing to consider other ideas.
In response to your question about a fenced yard, I'm not sure if you've read all of my posts, but I will have a fenced area, (I already have the fencing for it) probably 20' by 50' (larger than a lot of yards in town) that will also have a door into an enclosed shop for when I'm not able to watch it. It will be very well contained, yet have a lot of room outside, as well as a lot of room in a warm and dry shop as well. Abundant toys and beds as well, if my last dog was any indication. In a normal day I will be with the dog as long as I am awake, so it won't need to be in the enclosure.
Also keep in mind that in a normal week, I am only gone twice. Once for maybe 2 hours in the evening, and on Sundays, only for church and I stop and get groceries on the way home. I don't go into town for lunch etc. except once in a great while. Other than that, I'll be with my dog if I'm awake.
As to letting the dog in the house, I probably will on occasion. But it won't be the norm. I have given thought to the arguments for it though, I just stand by my feelings that a dog shouldn't sleep in the house. With me anyway, I know some people wouldn't have it any other way and that's what works best for them.
I've been checking shelters etc asking what dogs they have that need help the most, or are closest to being euthanized.