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Books on adopting a dog?

Last post 11-05-2009 1:11 PM by meilani. 6 replies.
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  • 10-18-2009 3:28 PM

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    Books on adopting a dog?

     As some of you know, we had to put our Rottweiler Shiloh down in May. Shi was mainly my mama's dog and now she's ready to add another dog to the family. She'd really like to adopt an adult Rotti. Being that we've never adopted a dog, and I know some of you have and some of you are involved in rescue, can any of you recommend any books on the subject of adopting a dog? Books that would break down what to look for, how to integrate a rescue with dogs that already live in the house, what to expect and all that jazz? I'm sure there's got to be books out there like that and I'd like to get a few for my mama. Thanks everyone! Smile

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  • 10-18-2009 4:20 PM In reply to meilani

    Re: Books on adopting a dog?

    The rescue that Gracie came from, where I later worked, gives away a small book called Second Hand Dog by Carole Lea Benjamin.  IT talks about having appropriate expectations for your dog, giving freedoms in measures, etc.

    http://www.amazon.com/Second-Hand-Dog-First-Rate-Howell-reference/dp/0876057350

    Here's an article that I think everyone who is considering adopting a "rescue" dog should read.    http://www.fortunatek9.com/Articles/The_Abuse_Excuse_Julia_V_McDonough.pdf  Not every rescue dog is abused, and overindulging a dog because of perceived prior abuse (which may never have happened) is a detriment to the dog and your relationship with it.  I know this article is given to adopters all over the country, google "abuse excuse" with "McDonough" and you'll see just a smattering of the rescues who use it.


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  • 10-18-2009 4:41 PM In reply to meilani

    Re: Books on adopting a dog?

    Those books are fine, but are mostly about what you do once the dog is adopted.  

    Hands down, the best book for people to read (*before* they adopt) that I've seen yet is Sue Sternberg's "Successful Dog Adoption".   If you rescue an adult, make sure you can have a meet & greet on neutral territory, make sure you can return the dog without prejudice should your dogs not get along at home, and look for "Lassie." Forget about saving the one you feel sorry for - save a good dog that will get along with the ones you already have!  They deserve your protection in this;-)

    Best way to choose is to pick a dog that likes people and other dogs, is already deferential to your household dogs, is *not* close in age to any of the existing dogs unless it's one of a different gender, and if you must have more than one dog that is of like gender, male & male do better than female & female.  If you can adopt a puppy, they are often most successful at entering multi-dog groups.

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  • 10-18-2009 5:11 PM In reply to miranadobe

    Re: Books on adopting a dog?

    miranadobe:

    The rescue that Gracie came from, where I later worked, gives away a small book called Second Hand Dog by Carole Lea Benjamin.  IT talks about having appropriate expectations for your dog, giving freedoms in measures, etc.

    http://www.amazon.com/Second-Hand-Dog-First-Rate-Howell-reference/dp/0876057350

    Oh man, KISMET -- When I read your title my first thot was "Oh man, she's NOT in vogue anymore but there is not a better book on adoption than Carole Lea Benjamin's Second Hand Dog."  And Mirandobe puts it out first.

    It's got cartoons all the way thru it -- but she makes some weighty points in her cartoons.  Things like remember that certain words or behaviors may have been TAUGHT, so so that response YOU are expecting might simply not be what this dog was taught to do.  And maybe it wasn't taught WELL -- but you need to be patient in teaching the dog what you expect of it.

    The one devil's advocate thing I'm going to mention (and remember that I am a bit disabled myself so I DO think of this) - I don't know you well enough to know how old your mama might be but is it going to be "do-able" to adequately deal with a dog of a rottie's size should it need veterinary care? 

    Specifically I mean -- when a dog that size gets sick, it may not be able to get into a car/truck under its own power.  Is your Mom in a situation where either a vet can come TO her, or is she able-bodied enough (and for the coming 10 or more years) to get a dog of that size TO a vet?

    I don't dislike big dogs -- quite the opposite.  But I know with my own physical limitations, I've had to face the reality that future dogs for us will have to be under 30 pounds .. and probably under 20, simply so *I* can pick them up if the need arises.

    Rushing on to another book suggestion; 

    The "ASPCA Complete Guide to Dogs" is an awesome tool

    http://www.amazon.com/ASPCA-Complete-Guide-Dogs-Aspc/dp/0811819043/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1255899259&sr=1-2-fkmr1

    It has some real common sense stuff with regard to what you might find at a shelter/animal control -- if a dog looks like ==> it might be mix of this and that breeds.  It has a more than decent thumb-nail description of breeds (by AKC group) that is pretty realistic as far as pointing out this dog sheds, that dog needs a more experienced owner, and this breed is prone to patellar problems, etc.  It's not a condemnation -- just a pretty brief single-page per breed synopsis that might be helpful?


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  • 10-18-2009 8:02 PM In reply to calliecritturs

    Re: Books on adopting a dog?

    calliecritturs:
    "Oh man, she's NOT in vogue anymore but there is not a better book on adoption than Carole Lea Benjamin's Second Hand Dog."

      I got some good stuff from her Mother Knows Best book on puppy-raising, too.  I felt like her stuff was really readable, and in the case of the puppy book, it's geared toward stages in their development which I liked.  Big Smile 

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  • 10-18-2009 8:58 PM In reply to miranadobe

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    Re: Books on adopting a dog?

     Thanks for the suggestions everyone. My mom is in her early 50's and already has experience in large breed dogs as we've owned GSD's, Dobes and Rotti's as that's what Shiloh was. Because she loved Shiloh to pieces, she really fell in love with the Rottweiler which is why she wants to adopt one. She really doesn't want a puppy as she doesn't want to go through raising a puppy and would rather have a young adult. Being that we have kids in the house and my 9 and 4 year old male and female Boston Terriers, we do need a dog that's good with kids and dogs.

     We went to see a Rotti last weekend and unfortunately, it didn't work out. We went to meet him in a neutral area. When he came out of the car, he was very aloof when he meet us. No tail wagging or any emotion. He didn't mind being petted and all that jazz. We introduced him to my dogs one by one. He didn't seem thrilled with them. If they tried to sniff his face or get close to him, he'd growl and show teeth. I took all of them for a walk in order to allow them to spend time with each other. He never tried to go after them but he seemed very uncomfortable with them. He'd let them sniff his legs or belly but he didn't like it if they'd go by his front. We didn't take him because he seemed too aloof and because I didn't feel comfortable with him around my dogs. I often wonder if I was hasty in my decision but I can't take a chance with the safety of my dogs and the kids. 

     Anyways, we're in no hurry to adopt a dog and we're holding out for the right one. Thank you all for the suggestions and I'll be checking out the books recommended. 

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  • 11-05-2009 1:11 PM In reply to meilani

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    Re: Books on adopting a dog?

     Hey all! Being that you all were a great help in suggesting rescue books, I was wondering if anyone can suggest good books on canine behavior particularly books that deal with adding new dogs to the pack. I'd totally appreciate it and thanks again for your help. Smile

    ~Meilani and the Zoo~

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