mrstjohnson
Posted : 5/29/2013 7:29:48 AM
I slept through the storms too Julie - however, I don't think they were as bad by me.
Shhh, I have a secret and I dying to tell someone so I will tell all of you ;-) No facebook posts please.
DH and I think we are going to give it one last college try and try to have another baby. We decided not to say anything to our families to avoid the whole "how's it going" discussion. For a long time we only wanted one, but now that things have stabilized with Riley we are rethinking it would be nice to give her a brother/sister. Plus we both come from families with multiple kids and it is nice to have family around/lean on when you get older. If it doesn't happen we are OK with it and will just go to Cancun ;-) But it would be cool. We financially can do it and definitely have enough love to go around.
Our major concern is me frankly. I turn 40 tomorrow and although my getting pregnant/pregnancy/birth/nursing with Riley was 100% easy, effortless, and had absolutely zero complications, you never know - that was almost 7 years ago. The doc gave us the thumbs up - so let the rollercoaster of counting days, etc. start. I think we are going to give it until the end of the year at most. So we will see.
It will be hard to give up some of the freedoms we have now, especially since Riley is just coming of age where we can take her on vacations we couldn't before. DH is especially impacted since Riley will start full day school next year and now he will be doing the baby thing all day at home again. In some respects it will be easier since we are home instead of in WI and my family will swarm like bees to help. But I also won't be able to come home for lunch everyday like I did - but I can work from home more now. So many things to consider we were driving ourselves crazy the past few weeks. So we finally said let's try it. We were laughing last night about how people in less fortunate situations than ours just take the plunge and say what the heck - why can't we
:)