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    • Gold Top Dog

    This is so sad.  I can only imagine how the kids feel right now!

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.

    • Gold Top Dog

    Sharon offers very good advice.  Get it out of you and down on paper, it helps.  Just like the youngest boy is drawing.  He's getting it out and that is very good. 

    daisyprincess
    I wish I could talk to him now I'm so mad at him for doing this

    I understand this completely, as I've experienced the anger for such an act myself.  Please do talk to him now...he may hear you.  If nothing else, your expressing yourself vocally will help YOU.

    Sending you and your family peace and strength as you cope with this devastating loss.

    • Gold Top Dog

    Thank you everyone.

    • Gold Top Dog

    I'm asking for prayers again for my cousins. Yesterday my 8 yr old cousin was baker acted because in school he locked himself in the bathroom and wouldn't open the door for the teacher and kept telling the teacher that he wanted to kill himself and be with his father. Also said then his mom can talk to his ashes, he said if he doesn't do it today then tomorrow and so on.

    My uncle's exwife isn't helping much I mean she didn't have custody of her kids and still no one really has custody of those 4 boys, she told them the step mother killed their father, she tells them things that they have no right knowing at this age.

    I don't know what to do I don't wanna get involved with their mother I know how she is she lies,manipulates. I just don't want anything like this happening again. My grandmother is no help and she's beginning to make lot of us angry, right now she has the oldest son and when she talks about him now she refers to him as her son. My grandmother has 4 girls and 1 boy her second daughter died in 2003 (breast cancer) now her son but her son was always her favorite and everyone knew it.

    Well now its being repeated with her grandson, now she put locks on her bedroom door and the door he's staying in and  last saturday she didn't want the other 3 in her house it's just wrong and disgusting how she is treating the other 3. Well my sister told her what was going on with her grandson and she says oh well it will do him good I've there. This kid is 8yrs old and she just brushes it off like that.  

    Anyway asking for prayers for these boys their names are John, Jordan, Joshua, and Joseph. Joshua is the one still baker acted. I'm very disturb by this, apart of me thinks maybe foster care would be better for the boys.

    Please send lots of prayers Thank you...Broken Heart

    • Gold Top Dog

    Oh my gosh...they sure do need prayers!  Perhaps all the family can get together and try to talk out what is best.....maybe someone can make Grandma and the mom see what is needed.

    • Gold Top Dog

    daisyprincess
    Please send lots of prayers Thank you...Broken Heart

     

    I will.  I'm so sorry.  (((hugs)))

    • Gold Top Dog

    Oh my, that's awefull.  I'm so sorry to hear this.

    My thoughts and prayers are with the boys (and family).

    (((HUGS)))

    • Gold Top Dog

    What a sad situation ... good thoughts and prayers for sure.  There are times when foster care is a GOOD thing.

    • Gold Top Dog

    calliecritturs

    What a sad situation ... good thoughts and prayers for sure.  There are times when foster care is a GOOD thing.

     

    I agree. Those poor kids. 

    • Gold Top Dog

     I will be praying for your family; (((hugs))).

     Has the school suggested counseling for the 8 year old? I think it may be a good idea to speak to them ( the school ) about the whole situation; perhaps they could get the proper authorities involved (not sure which agency that would be). 

    • Gold Top Dog

     I will pray for your family as well. ((Hugs to you and those boys)).

    • Gold Top Dog

    Oh dear, your family is in my prayers.

    • Gold Top Dog

    jessies_mom

     I will be praying for your family; (((hugs))).

     Has the school suggested counseling for the 8 year old? I think it may be a good idea to speak to them ( the school ) about the whole situation; perhaps they could get the proper authorities involved (not sure which agency that would be). 

     

    I agree.  It sounds as though there are some toxic people in their lives right now, and they need some support.

    • Gold Top Dog

     They will definitely be in our prayers!!