poodleOwned
Posted : 9/30/2009 3:08:10 AM
espencer
I dont see this problem related to who is in charge whatsoever (believe me you would be having worse problems than this). Your dog is only trying to see with how much he can get away with it and what he can do to make you give up (temper tantrums)
I think a simple quick way to understand what to do, is decide what you want. I always choose to misread cues given to me by dogs if i don't want the behaviour. Worrying about pack leadership wont fix the behaviours but these things will.
So if my dog whines or screams or has a tantrum and i don't want it, i consistently see this as a cue from the dog to go outside. Stops pretty quick.
If my dog is occupying furniture that i want, then tell them off and if that doesn't work, they get turfed nice and calmly.That is what i want
If my dogs start a bit of biffo (rough play) then both get to go outside.
If my dogs can't be calm for me when i open the door, then they can go back outside again till they are.
I really couldn't care less whether they go through the door first or last (actually they go last and it is a pain).
If i want them on the furniture then up on the furniture they come.
All of this is predicated on teaching my dogs clealy with reinforcement what behaviours i want.
It is all very simple, relaxing and works.