Hello all,
I have a 15month old female aussie shep(Deunan), and a 9month old male aussie shep(Aydin). They are both very sweet dogs, and get along for the most part. The problem is that when they start 'playing,' it tends to turn into the barkathon 2000. It usually starts over a toy. Deunan will be minding her buisness, and aydin will pick up a toy (squeakyCuz, bone, ball etc) then he will start 'growling' with it in his mouth, flinging his head around like its a rope bone. This will last a bit, and duenan will watch. Aydin will then 'push' the toy onto Deunan, and then she will try to take it from him. They'll start playing, which is fine. But then the barking starts, and it doesnt stop. Its like they are trying to prove who is loudest. Sometimes i think they are just playing, as aydin will start tearing around the room making 'passes' at deunan, in which she will bark/nip. Other times i think they are having a tiff. Eventually it will go back and forth. Deunan will get the toy, aydin tries to take it back from her. I can't tell if the barking is a play for alpha.
I'm not really sure which dog is alpha(or thinks they are alpha). Part of this is because they have such different personalities. Aydin is very outgoing, in regards to getting attention and being petted. Deunan is much more laid back, and would rather offer up a game of fetch than be petted. Aydin is super food motivated, while Deunan is not. In regards to toys, its often 'i want what the other dog wants' for both of them, but more often than not Aydin will take toys from Deunan first. Deunan since she is older, has a lot more privladges. She gets to stay out in the house during the day while we are at work(aydin is confined to the kitchen with much less comforts!) Aydin still sleeps in his crate, while Deunan sleeps in the bed with us. Deunan is also allowed on our nice couch.
Sometimes they will get out of hand, and Deunan will noticeably put Aydin in his place(despite being quite a bit smaller). Then they just return to the normal barkathon play.
Things we have tried, are a citronella collar on Deunan. While she generally doesnt start it, her bark is much higher pitched so its more annoying lol. It doesnt really help that much, and sometimes Aydin sets it off for her! When it does go off, they stop for 5 seconsd to sniff the air.. then continue on. The other thing that has helped, is to make Deunan lay down on the couch. But that feels like we are punishing her for playing. If anyone could give a suggestion, on how to help allievate the barking id really appreciate it. It seems they have a knack of 'turning up' their volume during our favorite shows. >_<
Thanks, -Mike