poodleOwned
Posted : 12/18/2009 3:25:44 AM
corvus
I call a group of dogs that live together a family, because that's what they act like to me. Erik is terribly obnoxious with Kivi, but when he meets a dog outside of the family he turns into a model puppy and if you never saw him at home you would never imagine that he throws himself at Kivi and bites him if he interrupts a game of tug, or that Erik will pry food out of Kivi's mouth if he gets the chance. Erik is obnoxious to me as well, and I take it as a sign of how relaxed he is around me that he'll tell me he hates me if I push him rather than showing me what an expert in appeasement gestures he is.
I guess that one way we can work out how diversified doemstic dogs work in a family is to tell our families story. Our family consists of Adult couple , Sam and Luci the poodles and Molly who is a nearly 15 year old cat. She landed up at home because she had "little grey pads"...
Sam and Luci are from sort of similar bloodlines. They are as Chalk and cheese, but get on pretty well. They are a very active couple of dogs and on the go for most of the day. Luci is older, and had the advantage of being bought up in our household with lots of socialisation and training. You can have a look at her videos on a posting in Conformation and Obedience . She is a bouncy energetic confident dog that is highly gregarious and well over a couple of set backs she had in her earlier days. She is very bright and has learned to learn. She can be a little diffident towards recalls occasionally, and has no appeasement behaviours towards other dogs of any significance. She can be a little spooky and is very literal.
Sam is a very confident very fast outgoing dog too. He is also very strong for his size. He came to us as a 16 month old dog some 5 months ago. He has no right to be as he is, he should be timid and mal adjusted but genetics willed out in his case.
Basically, Sam and Luci play sometimes noisily form dawn to dusk. They are competitive over me, and over certain toys. They have lots of engagement stratergies and often use their intelligence to do funny things to each other. I noticed Luci engaging Sam in a game with a tracking sock. Sam got it off her, and then Luci feigned sleep till he got up and left the sock. She then run around the house showing off the sock.
They take turns at alert barking. We have a public path around our house, and they are aways concerned that the dogs and or people on it may be stealing it. There is the neighbourhood black and white cat which needs telling off to. One barks the other joins in.
They don't have a clear leader, they swap a fair bit. They don't fight to the death but certainly have the odd non contact dust up.Their demeanour in the whole shows happiness and i hope joy. Not the confilt ridden lives that the pack specialists would have us believe.
I certainly don't play the must have control at all times leader. But i do expect that when i seriously ask i get . Luci can put commands in to her diary for reference later when she isn't busy but she does earn the odd consequence for that. it really isn't a big deal. We run the household on humour and fun and reason. Sam despite his background and being super OTT, is almost always super obedient.