Chuffy
Posted : 12/6/2009 10:42:37 AM
espencer
Daffodil_Lament
If i walk away isnt that kind of helping with the antisocialness?
Yes it is, if you walk away you are not fixing anything and you are just avoiding the problem.
The alternative to walking away is NOT moving away, and this would basically be "flooding" - a risky process and only sometimes effective. Often it just backfires and the dog's response escalates, and for most people there is no knowing which way it will go until you try it. It's a big risk, and a needless one, when there are alternatives available.
Moving away from the trigger signals to the dog that you are in control and she has nothing to worry about. There are a number of things you can do to increase her confidence without making her work through it right there next to the thing that iscaring her. Trust me, if you tried this on me with spiders I would attack YOU in my attempt to get away!!
Essentially, she has to LEARN that the object is not scary - when she is TOO CLOSE she is not in a state of mind to learn anything, because she is too frightened/emotional. In the short term, I think you are better off moving away to a distance that she can cope with and giving simple commands that she "knows"... This helps her reconnect with you and also feel more confident (the effect of success... "yes I know that! I can DO that!";).
Place youself between the thing and the dog as you move away. It's something you can do even when you can't move away.... This is a pretty much universal signal of taking control and protecting and will help to inspire confidence in her. Don't scold or coddle her (although I find a calming touch sometimes helps, as long as you are confident she won't whip round in a panic and snap!) Stay aloof and calm - you want to set an example she can follow - and keep her lead slack.
Jerking on it can be harmful if it is on a collar, but is not likely to even register if the pressure is spread out with a harness. If she is wearing a no-pull device like a halti or an easy walk harness.... you should NOT pull on it!
A headcollar can be useful for helping to turn her attention away from items and back on to you, but again - NO JERKING - and some dogs really don't like these devices. Usually you have to acclimate them to the item slowly with treats and praise over at least a couple of days; I think it's worth taking the time, even if walks have to be suspended for the time being. As long as she is given plenty of other activities, it should not have an adverse effect.
You could try to walk her at quiet times at first, to make it easier on both of you, but the downside to that option is that reactive/fearful/aggressive dogs also tend to be walked at those times!
Good luck anyway....