I have one dog, a yellow lab, who was abused and neglected for the first year of his life. My family and I rescued him, and at first he was fearful and submissive of anyone surprising him, or if someone's feet came near him, or if he couldn't see a person's hand. He occasionally is anxious, but now after a several years he is comfortable with most things and is definitely more relaxed.
My question, however, has to do with another dog. A friend of mine got this dog from a dog breeder a Bernese Mountain dog. They asked me to dog sit for them for a week at first and throughout the past year I've dogsat off and on. they also have a golden retriever, Jack, who is the most affectionate (almost overly loving) dog i know. Anyways, The bernese mountain dog, Greta, is excessively fearful. Greta's owner told me that Greta is scared off any stranger, other dog, and even relatives she used to be comfortable around. the owner said when Greta was a puppy, she was fine and had no problems. However, when she was about two years old, they noticed that she was becoming more and more cautiousa round evryone and everything, and was no longer comfortable going to the owner's parents' house, where she had been completely at home before. Now she's i think she's about four years old.
In my dogsitting, It was very difficult for me to get close to her at first, even with a treat or some special snack. She would back away as much as possible and would even care not to back herself into a corner. The only thing I could do was firmly say "Greta, sit" and "stay" over and over so she would at least listen to me. Even if something across the room, like me or Jack, moved, she'd jump up ready to find a hiding place. on walks, Greta would stay either way up front or just behind me, and I could often feel her getting close to me from behind, but if i turned to look at her she'd dart away, and not look at me. If we came upon another person during the walk, she'd give them a very wide berth (usually as far as rthe leash would go) and if they weren't looking at her she would occasionally get a little closer to investigate before running ahead again. When giving her a treat, it took so much coersion to get her to take it that i finally just set the treat on the floor and backed away until she decided it was safe. Finally, after I had dogsat for this family a few times, Greta was becoming slightly more comfortable around me. One day, I took her outside and was surprised when she jumped down, with her butt still in up, like she wanted to play. So i kinda ran around with her, not to close, scraed that she might dart off and out of the yard. Then, she laid down on the grass, and rolled over. I walked over to her and sat down slowly and started petting her belly and she was fine. She even let me hug her on more than one occasion even from behind. Unfortunately, this relaxed behavior ended outside. when i'd take her back inside, she would once again keep her distance. She would still be more comfortable with me, but revert back to most of her old behaviors.
This drastic change in behavior confuses me, does anyone know what could have caused this? Can the personalities of her owners have affected or exacerbated her behaviors in this way? her owner is kind of a worrier and almost a type A personality whereas I'm definitely more relaxed and calm, and Greta always seems more at peace after I've spent time with her.
As I'm looking forward to studying animal behavior and veterinary medicine, i'd really love to hear what everyone has to say, or what they've observed in dogs that may be in a similar situation. thanks in advance!